Doubts??? Issit bad? I don't know what to do...?

Question

I'm just afraid that he'll play things behind my back. He used to clubs, parties etc etc. And he knows that i don't like all that. He told me he already change for the better. But who knows.... Poeple do change again... I tried not to control his life. I already say to myself as long as we have not tie with any knot. I wont say anything. But the problem is, I'm still having doubts on him. I'm afraid that he will go back to his old life or leave me for somebody else....

Answer 1

Hi Wonder, Sounds like you have doubts about your relationship with this guy. Sweetie if you cannot trust him,you have no relationship at all. Being together marry or not you both need trust,caring and honest to have a good and wonderful relationship. Move on if you are uncomfortable with this relationship.
A Friend.

Clowmy

Answer 2

talk to him and discuss your feelings and doubts. if he's serious about you, he'll take it seriously and convince and confort your worries.

"not yet tie the knot" safety barriers? dont be too sure for you're too emotinally involved! emotional is one thing and physical is another. seems its an excuse and a false comfort you're creating.

he maybe taking you for granted and not doing enough to comfort you or you're too lax and accomondating?

have a god serious and firm talk . . . it shuld benefits both parties unless one decides to scarifice.

good luck.

Answer 3

did he do that before? are you doubts based on facts or just on doubts? as long as you don't have any confirmation of his disloyalty, just let your doubts go. you're putting unnecessary stress on yourself. enjoy his company. love yourself. live for today. the future is for tomorrow yet.

Answer 4

it sound like you have trust issues , and if that the case then
you need to talk to him because if you dont have trust you
dont have much of anything.