i'm drained! 20yrs of life sucked out of me!
PEOPLE THAT HAVE NEVER DONE **** FOR ME!
2007-03-09 16:58:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When you are convinced it is not the right thing to do. For you never, you have kindness in your heart.
2007-03-09 17:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
true enough stop helping when it hurts and drains you, especially emotionally and financially.
some like to use others because it makes them feel good. so it's a waste of time and life to help
people who don't deserve it. notice if they are lazy and never give back anything. sometimes they tell others
that they know someone who helped them and you end up a victim, therefore despising the good
that you've done.
2016-01-05 19:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kelvin Holmes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As selfish as this may sound, you need to start thinking for yourself and about yourself. People will drain you emotionally and even financially if you allow them too. You are much too young to start developing a negative attitude.
Be friendly, but don't be friends so quickly.
2007-03-09 17:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop helping people when it wears you out. Whether or not they help you should never factor in, but if your reasources, energy or emotional stability have been drained, its time to worry about yourself for a little while.
2007-03-09 17:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have answered your own question already... helping people should make you feel good, if it is draining you then it is time to move on.
2007-03-09 17:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by scratch7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop helping your own self, then it is time to focus on you and let others help themselves. Sometimes no matter how much you try , some people you just can't help.
I had to stop helping others (for a lil' while) to be able to help myself.
2007-03-09 19:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cajun_ Creater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never stop helping people. You just gotta be careful and know where to draw the line and not allow people to use you.
2007-03-09 17:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by PufftheMagicDragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love people without expectation. for youll never be rewarded or rarely.
sounds like your burned out and ready for a new environment.
take care of yourself.
2007-03-09 17:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by wcarolinew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you begin to enable them. Helping = empowering (in a good way) not making them dependent on you. KNow WHen TO Say NO.
2007-03-09 17:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Cerantine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never, you just use a little wisdom when it comes to choosing who to help.
2007-03-09 17:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by minimouse68 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋