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ok so i just got dumped after going out for 3 days...still dont no y um other than that have had a lot of bad crap happen in the last 4 months
im currently in middle school
as far as ik the only time ive been happy in the last 4 months is with the girl but she doesnt want a boyfriend
um...any1 have an idea to get me happy bcuz right now im lonely and depressed

2007-03-09 16:55:12 · 4 answers · asked by ggtightend 2 in Social Science Psychology

4 answers

What I know about being happy is that some people just are and others have to struggle with it. I am one of the strugglers. Try to do things that make you feel good about who you are. Set a goal and work towards it. Learn something, go somewhere, save money, work towards a cause that means something to you (save a historic building or gather signatures on a petition). Something, anything. Just don't give your power over to someone else to make you happy. Don't rely on a girl to love you or a teacher to give you a certain grade on a subjective subject like writing or on winning the lottery. Claim your power, find you happiness, attract more good things. It is totally possible, but you have to do it. Oh, and admire the poor slob who was born happy, don't hate him for it. We should all be so lucky and one day you might look like that person to someone else.

Ummm, that "Way to Happiness" booklet is a tool for Scientology btw. No foul if you are looking for a new religon, but shame on the person who suggested it for not being more forthcoming about what it is. I just clicked the link and checked it out.

2007-03-09 17:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by dogtownbetty 3 · 0 0

Turn on some music that you really like--or a really funny movie or TV show

Call a friend with a great sense of humor

Go out and walk/jog/run it off

Do some exercising

Use any artistic talents you have (art, music, writing, poetry, etc.). When one is down, some of their best work is produced.

Please feel better soon :)

2007-03-09 17:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1 0

some times i can be hard thats what im strugling with right know just find something you like think oh the postive and go away form whats making you sad because you have to make yourself happy

2017-04-16 14:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Margaret 1 · 0 0

go 2 peekvid and watch the movie the secret

2007-03-09 17:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1 1

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