i met guy for 3 times already. i think he likes me. he invited me for coffee and movies sometimes.
last time, i called him to invite him a coffee, he let me know he just arrived from business trip and got many things to do thus he couldnt join the date. he proposed next weekend and he would confirm it later.
what should i do:
if he wont contact me again, i would move on. OR ..... ???
besides, during the week, he didnt call me or send text messages for asking me "how are u". why is that? Is he serious?
p.s: he is the managers of 3 beauty salons
2007-03-09 16:41:22 · 11 answers · asked by espiritgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he doesn't contact you about next weekend, let it go. You went out three times. That is dating not a relationship. He was away on business. Sometimes when a person is away on business they are just concentrating on that business. He may not have had time to text you, and again since you aren't a couple he probably didn't see the need to. Give him a chance to unwind from his trip and see if he contacts you. If he doesn't, I would really move on.
Get involved with your own life and friends. The busier you are enjoying what you have, the more fulfilled you will feel. And maybe you will find you don't even care if he calls. Also you could be found by the right guy while enjoying yourself. Don't just wait on this one guy, you could be missing out.
2007-03-09 16:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like you, sometimes I just have too much time dedicated to think too much about guys, and I'm not concentrating on myself. I suggest you keep yourself busy with things you like to and have to do in the meanwhile. If he calls, he calls. If he doesn't, then I'm sure there are plenty more guys out there for you. Managers do tend to be busy. Don't chase him though, don't let him know that you are pining over him-waiting by the phone for him to call..it's like watching for when the water is going to boil-it will take forever! Let him come to you. Show him you have other things going on in your life besides just him.
2007-03-10 00:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get busy, and start going out with other people! This guy is either a very busy person..or he's got his own agendas! But, in the meantime...don't sit around at the telephone..waiting for HIM to call you....do your own fun stuff...get out and date others! Have a life! Ya know, there are a lot of other fish out there, waiting to be "caught"..and they are really are.waiting to find the "Right one"...who knows? Maybe YOU are the person to "walk into somebody's life at that distinct moment in time!" You just never know...!!!!
2007-03-10 00:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rivka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the guy breathe and wait for his call. I have a feeling you will end up scaring him away if you are this way after 3 dates. Slow down and let it all happen naturally.
Good luck!
2007-03-10 00:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE on.....i think this seat is already occupied....
but if you still love him.... just give hime a surprise visit..in his saloon....
better still.....talk to a common friend.. and ask about him.....
at times common friends can give better clues about a guy
2007-03-10 00:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by importer911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player forget him.
2007-03-10 00:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always not advicable for a female to go for a man that she shall be marked cheap by that man
2007-03-10 00:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by boosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just very busy to catch up with you
2007-03-10 00:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by Peter's_Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say eni, mini, mini mo, if he hollers let him go.
2007-03-10 00:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by PETER R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him space. maybe he is busy. just live your everyday life, if he is meant for you, then it will happen. if not,. . . don't wait for it. live your life.
2007-03-10 00:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋