I would like to have a baby..... But my fiance has a lil problem down stairs. We are going to try all the fertility stuff but 95% of the time he doesnt :::::::during intercourse. He gets real close and then it just doesnt happen....For some reason he just doesnt :::::: during intercourse but during ever other activity....Does anyone have any ideas on what we can do so we can have some chance of having a baby?
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they blacked it out but i was trying to say ejaculate
2007-03-09 16:19:52 · 2 answers · asked by Finally his wife! 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
umm i am getting married in 3 weeks....we plan on being married befor we have a baby...we have been together for 5 years...believe me we are commited to each other
2007-03-10 03:33:34 · update #1
You may not believe me, but it sounds like the problem is psychological. Guys who are really afraid of getting their women pregnant can't ejaculate during sex, but have no problems in other scenarios.
Have a talk with your fiance outside the bedroom, and find out if he truly wants a baby right now. My guess is he doesn't.
2007-03-09 18:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is sperm in the fluid that comes out at the start, but it's very little. If you want low-tech, you could try what is essentially the turkey baster method, which is that he ejaculates and you then manually insert it into the vagina. Frankly, though, I think he should deal with the psychological problems... it may not just be fear of pregnancy, there could be other things going on. Tell him to go to a regular doctor and get a physical first, just to make sure he's healthy, and then to go to a urologist. Also, why don't you get married before you get pregnant? Your baby deserves people who are committed to each other, not just planning to be committed. Just a thought.
2007-03-10 04:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋