Do looks really matter?
Is it true that when you find "true love" that looks are irrelevant?
2007-03-09 16:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it shouldn't really matter what the other person looks like. If you found the 'true one', he\she is the only one in your world. No matter what, it doesn't matter. Its what is inside of that person. Is what matters. It shouldn't matter what they look like, it's how they care about you,and treat you.
A person could be really beautiful, and or handsome, but he or she could treat you like the biggest piece of s***! Or abuse you. and your family. So chose someone that treats you right. And listens to you. Don't stay with someone who doesn't truly care about you because of your looks. Good Luck.
2007-03-09 16:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. Attraction is all that really matters, be it physical, spiritual, or mental. The first question should be " Do you believe in true love". My answer is no, love is never true, it's always changing, never certain, and always conditional. Second question should be "Are looks irrelevant". My answer is yes, they are completely irrelevant, or at least they should be. People should be judged on their character, their intelligence, and their personality. That'll never happen in this great world that we live in, where beauty means skinny, preppy, well muscled, and well endowed or whatever the current social culture dictates is beauty. Me I live those that are unusual, opinionated, a little mean-spirited, and free. Just my opinion and nothing else
2007-03-09 16:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tuner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dont matter at all here, is the beauty of the heart of u and yr partner have to bring u to together, the love that make u fell comfortable to be with one another.Trust and honesty. when god made us they give us a heart to see the love within. Look is only for the eyes of the beholder,she may look ugly to u, in yr yes she is always beautiful for u.
2007-03-09 16:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel there should be a certain attraction yes BUT looks should not be the only factor here as they fade over time anyway... You need to fall in love with who they are as a person and for their heart and because you love them and not just for the looks. Yes looks sure can be a plus but if this is the only reason you fall in love with them that is pretty shallow if you ask me.
2007-03-09 16:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't and the better looking ones are more work. Now a great body.... that matters...
2007-03-09 16:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no remember what, seems are important in any dating, regardless of your self! wellbeing smart it is important to stay in good condition or a minimum of watch what you consume. attractiveness smart it somewhat is for specific an excellent element to not lose your self b/c once you lose your self (which potential you initiate gaining weight, not being concerned approximately doing all your hair or nails, or maybe care the way you gown) you start to lose your self assurance, shallowness, and your better half will start to ensure it and grow to be bored in you b/c that isn't the guy he/she married.
2016-10-18 00:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks can matter or not depends on who is looking.
2007-03-09 16:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nea'A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true, looks don't matter.
2007-03-09 16:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by ambernpeach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I often hear guys complain that they deeply resent their wives getting fat, looks do matter
2007-03-09 16:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Ice queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not sure. but i think looks are important to0 (kind of) because why would date/get marred to someone who you aren't physically attractive to. wouldn't you kind of feel weird?
my head hurt =(
2007-03-09 16:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋