I would like to have a baby..... But my fiance has a lil problem down stairs. We are going to try all the fertility stuff but 95% of the time he doesnt *** during intercourse. He gets real close and then it just doesnt happen....For some reason he just doesnt *** during intercourse but during ever other activity....Does anyone have any ideas on what we can do so we can have some chance of having a baby?
2007-03-09 16:05:24 · 4 answers · asked by Finally his wife! 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
they blacked it out but i was trying to say ejaculate
2007-03-09 16:09:05 · update #1
There are a lot of reasons why a man may not orgasm and ejaculate in a prescribed way. It may be physical, or it may be drug-related, prescription or non-prescription. It may be because of strong religious injunctions and guilt; the idea of not wanting to surrender to a woman; or, even fear of pregnancy. Or, it may be that you are different for him than other women he's been with, and that the closeness he feels to you makes him more anxious during sex than in the past.
Try enjoying the sex play that the two of you do together, without the expectation of orgasm. Work on spending time together being close. Let him pleasure you, without you trying to take care of his pleasure. Take the pressure off ejaculation and orgasm. Once you two feel close enough again, it may be that naturally he will be able to orgasm. If not, pick a time (not while in bed!) to discuss what's been going on. Ask him what it would mean to him to orgasm with you. Talk with him about what it means to you that he doesn't ejaculate inside of you. Make sure you're both open and honest, and working on the same wavelength.
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2007-03-09 20:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would check with his doctor to see if the cause is medical or otherwise. But there is no reason why you couldn't be artificially inseminated with his sperm. They would just need him to ejaculate into a specimin cup and then inseminate you with the sperm while you are ovulating. It's not a very expensive procedure at all, especially if compaired with IVF.
I wish you all the best!
2007-03-10 06:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered artificial insemination?
http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/preconception/fertilityproblems/4092.html#0
http://www.locateadoc.com/questions.cfm/337 On this site you can ask doctors any questions you may have.
Hope this helps, and good luck.
2007-03-10 02:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really needs to see a Dr over this there is not much you can do on your own to fix it, i wish you the best of luck
2007-03-10 01:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋