i have a friend she is like so close to me were basically related to me
and ive always been number 2 compared to her
its like on msn ill talk to people and they say hi
but when shes on they never do
and she used to hate hanging with people or having friends
she hated guys to like them
i always loved that stuff
now she has all these friends
all these guys like her and i always feel like im second compared to her
u got any advice?
2007-03-09 15:53:37 · 7 answers · asked by breanna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
keep her as a friend but try to make other friendship, this happens unfortunately us females change alot, she can always be your friend but you need a new best friend.
its not good its not bad its just life, people grow apart, I have a best friend like this since around the second grade we were friends we have gone off and on but since we both had our own groups of friends 20 years later we are still close.
2007-03-17 15:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit worrying about being #2 and make your own way then you'll be #1. You may be close but you're 2 differant people. You shouldn't let something like this bother you. Be the best you that you can be and things will fall into place..I promise! G.
2007-03-09 16:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by G=ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she changed and you haven't. you can't really blame her for liking guys and friends now, its part of growing up. I wouldn't be jealous if i were you. Either try to stay with her, or if it's not working, find new friends. The most important thing is being real with your friends and trying to find people who will support you and make you feel comfortable. Maybe you two just grew apart and thats okay, sometimes it happens. It did for me too. I found 2 other girls who are just as close as me and my old best friend. You don't have to HATE her, you just don't have to be as close anymore. Good luck!
2007-03-09 16:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people change over time. If you think about it, you have changed also. Don't worry so much about somebody else!! And definately don't worry about guys!!!
You'll find that guys will come & go. And A GOOD FRIEND will be there always!! Through it all.
2007-03-17 16:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by ilovepoison2820 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad that happens to ladies... to all ladies
2007-03-16 18:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change.... just move on.
2007-03-09 15:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie4098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you have terrible grammer and no one understands what you're saying.
2007-03-09 15:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋