do men lose respect or get turn off by a women who fights over them?

Question

my friend is married and her husband recently left and move into his own apartment. They have been having problems for a long time now . He got someone else pregnant while they was separated and the child is now 2 yrs old . I told her that i think he is still messing with his baby mom .Yesterday she went over his apartment and this other girl was over their. Now this is a friend of her husband , she has even dropped him off at their house and my friend chased her off . Well the two of them got into a fight and my friend has a swollen eye and the other girl is messed up as well .He is walking around ok , I told her the both of them should have jumped on his *** because he is the reason for all the commotion going on. I told her they are fighting over him and he is probably laughing at them, and still with his baby mama. I really do not think , this is going to change her husband mind about being with her . I believe her is messing with all three of them ,but of course she does not

Answer 1

the husband is the one who caused the pain, and allows the relationship with the girl to continue. fighting over him, just boosts his low self worth, he likes it. she will not really win his love by fighting, as its really the one who can walk away and keep her dignity and self respect, that gets the respect in the long run. why chase her off, or fight with her, that is just going to keep things going, she would get more respect from him if she were to walk out on him, and show him he couldn't get away with doing that to her. he doesn't seem to be such a good catch anyway, your friend could do alot better if she were to dump the cheater, and just move on. what does she have anyway, just a cheating man, which makes for a very unhappy marriage.

Answer 2

My Dad always told me that a man is your if you have to fight for him. Looks like this guy can't keep his pecker in his pants.

Tell your friend he was put her through enough humilation and quit getting angry about this because she is giving her power away by doing these things.

Tell her no matter how painfull things are that she has to move on. If he moved out obviously he does not want to be with her, he has some plans of his own. The real truth comes out when you remove yourself.