my friends always call me a push over! im always getting used and etc! like for example my ex he forgot my birthday when we were going out but on his birthday i spent $35 on him! i didnt really mind but it was a big deal! i want to get meaner! im in high school and my school is a horrible place, exspecially when your a very nice person! im the type of person who hates drama so sometimes i let ppl have there way! plz help cause im getting really tired of being used a stuff!
2007-03-09 15:42:00 · 4 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No need to get mean!!! Get better self-esteem! Why do you think you deserve to be treated that way? Speak up! Speaking up doesn't make you mean either!!!
People do take advantage of other people though. It's because they can get away with it. One of the things you need to learn and put it in your daily vocabulary is the word "NO". Tell people no. Not in a rude way but tell them you can't do (whatever it is their asking) because you are just too over committed right now but you would have loved to help them.
No one says you still can't be that "nice girl from school" but they will remember you just as well if you have the self-esteem to go along with it.
2007-03-09 15:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by momto3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throught severe college I experienced an analogous: "Are you emo?" that's what I heard each and all of the time, they have been confident i grew to become into, darling there is no longer something you're able to do to cause them to alter yet you are able to exchange the type you take care of the placement by technique of ignoring them, I did! sturdy success xx
2016-09-30 11:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by faim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably are, but it ain't over till it's over, and woe unto those when it FINALLY is. Flip the script! Nice just don't get it anymore.
2007-03-09 15:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by VidaLoca411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish u luck gettin tougher u really cant change who u r n ur heart ur boyfriend is a looser u will find sum one who appreciates u and doesnt think u r a push over
2007-03-09 15:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by regina e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋