Just wondered if friends who have a 2 yr history together should say i love you 2 eachother when 1 is married?
2007-03-09 15:38:49 · 11 answers · asked by rachael m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I tell my friends that I love them all the time. If you feel that it may be recieved in a way that it is not intended, I would not say it. You also do not want to do anything that would offend the spouse or cause issue in their marriage. Some people aren't comfortable with "I love you" and think you can only love someone in a romantic way.
2007-03-09 17:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I love my friends like family you bet I tell them that I love them. Even the married ones.
2007-03-10 03:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them, but not if it is going to get weird. I usually say "I love you" to my sisters, mother, but not to a guy friend, and I have guy friend for 18 years, and in a "sister" kind of way, I truly love them, but it would be weird to say those words, being that I am married, and so are they.
2007-03-09 23:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a different in who you want to say "I Love You" to and it is also depend upon how the other person will perceived. Maybe you could look up the thesaurus for "Love" and use the synonyms
2007-03-09 23:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Nea'A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, they shouldn't. People who are married protect their partner, and if this makes you uncomfortable, let him know right away. If he says you are over-reacting, tell him that may be true, but you still don't like it and really wish he would stop that. Honestly, he probably thinks its flirty and cute, and now it needs to end.
2007-03-09 23:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if this is appropriate or not... If it is the opposite sex i dont know if i would be comfortable with saying that one to him ... I feel the only guy i should say that too is my husband .... Course you would love your friends in a totally different way then you would your husband anyways.
2007-03-09 23:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, right when they're screwing they do.
In front of the spouse, no. But when they are making The Beast With Two Backs, yes, they do.
Isn't that what makes the world bearable for them - their secret affair filled with drama and romance?
2007-03-09 23:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would, especially if we have been friends for a while. i'm sure when my friends get married i will still say i love you to them.
2007-03-09 23:44:05 · answer #8 · answered by obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i tell my friends i love them all the time. there is a difference between friends love and romantic love.
2007-03-09 23:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....i tell people that i love them
what if tomorrow never comes, i want them to remember that i loved them
2007-03-10 06:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋