My stepmom's ex-husbond was put in prison as a sex offender. She said the girl was a teenager and defends him. He is out now after serving 10+ years. I looked him up and it says his victim was FIVE YEARS OLD!!! You can find him on kentucky's offender registry under the name larry jones. He is living with her and my father!!!! I told them i would not bring my kids around him period. What I don't understand is why she lied about the age of the girl. Should I confront her and ask if she knew the real age of the girl or was she just going on what she was told. They are computer illiterate. They have a history of forgiving molestors because they forgave the man who did it to me. I visit hem in public with my children as long as he isn't there. I just can't get past the fact that they know what he has done and allowing him to stay at their home. I won't go there with my kids. I won't go there alone. What is your opinion?
2007-03-09 15:35:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
You are smart to keep your children away from him, and you be careful too. If the subject and the right time comes up, maybe you can talk to her about what you found. But what really matters is you and your children's safety.
2007-03-09 15:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by someday 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he lied to your stepmom and she believed it. I can't understand why your dad allows this guy to live with them either. Maybe she's a bit of a bulldog and he's afraid to stand up to her and say no. I completely understand why you wouldn't want your children around this man. But I think it would be OK for you to bring you kids for a visit with their grandpa as long as there are adults supervising at all times if this ex-husband person is around. But it doesn't sound like you'd be comfortable with this at all so why not have your dad come to your house to see his grand kids?
2007-03-10 02:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm with you on that whole scene. I'm so sorry. What happened to you was wrong and never should have happeneed. I'm sorry that the people who should have been protecting you didn't. I do not believe they would protect your children. I would print out what you foundd online and maail it to them. I most likely wouldn't see them any more and wouldn't allow any of tthem near my babies. Cite the fact that you choose your kids and know how to protect them and allways will. It might seem harsh to somme but i'd just cut my ties!
Good luck sweetie,
Aloha
2007-03-09 23:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by mauikittie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing by keeping your children away from this man ,I would print out what you found on him and show it to them and explain you are not going to put your children in harms way ,Good Luck
2007-03-10 08:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being smart for keeping your children away from him. Your step-mom had to know the details, and is keeping it from you. Don't trust her. I would confront her, and whatever you do, do not bring your children anywhere near that man. Good Luck and keep safe.
2007-03-09 23:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you at all in fact I give you 5 kiddos for keeping you babies safe away from this sick O. I have no respect for child molesters at all and if it were up to me he would NEVER see the light of day. You keep doing what it is your doing and keep your babies safe and your mother has some issues sorry but it's true..
2007-03-09 23:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by kenny_in_south_park 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right to stay away. There is no way I would let my children be exposed to a pervert like that.
2007-03-09 23:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may have been told otherwise she may not have known she was only 5.. but warn her and stay the FRAK away!!!!
2007-03-09 23:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For me i would'nt want my kids or me myself to take the risk. Not that i don't want to give him a second chance, i just could not take the risk for my kids sake...
2007-03-09 23:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋