We have 3 kids he has 2 jobs and I have a full time job. We don't have a lot of time to spend with each other. Any suggestions on how to get our love life back. I feel like we are more like room mates than husband and wife.
2007-03-09 15:35:27 · 9 answers · asked by grace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cook him a nice meal
2007-03-09 16:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by darth_nooch27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so feel you. I had the same problem with my husband since we both worked full time jobs and have two boys. So what I stared to do was when I knew my husband was coming home early from work. I would feed my kids take them a baby and put them to bed. So when my husband came home we would talk together how our day was then we would spend sometime together if you know what I mean. Just never stop showing your husband love.
2007-03-09 15:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by VAIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those 2 jobs gotta be sucking the life out of him. Have they guy save up some money and you two take a vacation without the kids. Then have the hottest sex possible 2,3,4 times a day while you are on vacation.
If this doesn't help out the sex drive, try Viagra.
2007-03-09 15:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is your sex drive?
Go to bed early and ask him to come lay down and give him a back rub.
Men and women both feel best when they feel appreciated and cared for.
Buy a cute little nitegown and don't wear big ugly tshirts to bed. They have little camisoles and little shorts our right now, try to look girly and you'll feel sexier but can still be in front of your kids!
You're both tired. Try some romance in the morning.
I read in Cosmo men are most aroused at 3 in the morning, while they're asleep. Wake him up!
Give kisses every single day.
:o)
2007-03-09 15:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about some evening playing, or some get up early and jump him. men shouldn't need the jump start. I have never needed it in the last 32 years. NEVER. The thought of being too tired is not even there. Now when your both tired, it is not a grand production. It is more like him taking care of you and then having his way with you. men don't need romance, just serious hard loving.
2007-03-09 15:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, he's coming up short in all departments, huh? I even have been accused by using quite a few human beings for not having sufficient ambition, yet no way will I turn down intercourse. In his protection, according to risk he's petrified of you getting pregnant. Neither of you working isn't a topic to convey a toddler into. My advice to you is to stand business enterprise with him. rigidity him out the door to discover a job or to discover some form of counseling for his funk. good success.
2016-10-18 00:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the kids in bed or at someone elses house and start with a shower together, that seems to work well:)
2007-03-09 15:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him how much you appreciate him. Once he gets to the table, his appetite will come back.
2007-03-09 15:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sara J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be spontaneous! "I WANT YOU" right here right now! Role play! DON'T be yourself for a change!!!
2007-03-09 15:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by VidaLoca411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋