And I don't think my friends like her....what do I do party is in 3 days
2007-03-09 15:31:47 · 30 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen all of you are right but, well there is one of her and 5 of them i dont want her to fell bad if they say she is wierd and im not a brat im 13 trying it threw middle school doing the right thing
2007-03-09 15:49:26 · update #1
Personally, I don't think YOU sound like much of a friend at all. Don't invite her, you'll be doing her a favor.
2007-03-09 15:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Katiecat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend, why are YOU calling her a "geek"? You don't have the right to even call yourself her friend if YOU would even ask such a question while placing a label on her like that. Do her a favor & DON'T invite her. Sounds like you would be right in there with the other girls laughing at her behind her back, thinking she hasNO idea that she's the blunt of the big joke! Do you ever wonder what the "cool" girls are saying about YOU behind YOUR back? Believe me,you'd be surprised...& she probably knows, the sorry thing is, she probably puts up with the pain & humiliation hoping that you'll accept her someday for who she is. I'll bet she's nice, polite, and not as "worldly", right? I'd say she's better off without a friend like that. Leave her off your "party favor" list. She'll be just fine.
2007-03-09 15:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all boils down to this: is she your friend or isn't she?
Put yourself in her shoes for a moment: what if YOU were the "geeky" one and you found out that you were excluded from your "friend's" party because of what others would think?
Would you feel differently about your "friend" given first that she thought of you as a "geek," then considered more about her popularity ratings from others over your feelings?
A true friend is not going to worry what other people think about her -- in fact, a true friend would defend her against naysayers and be offended if others make fun of her.
Be the bigger person here and invite her -- you might even have more fun than you think, and even if you don't, it is always best to have at least one good, loyal friend than a bunch of "sunshine acquaintances."
2007-03-09 15:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES INVITE YOUR "GEEKY" FRIEND Just warn her/him about the ppl who are attending they may decide not to come, but give them the option. It's wrong to not invite a friend b/c there geeky. If your worried how your friends will treat her/him tell them first so if things go wrong you can tell him/her you warned him/her. If your geeky friend decides to come make them feel comfortable Treat Others The Way You Want To Be Treated b/c no matter how popular you are there will be times in life you will realize how thankful you are towards the kindness of others.
2007-03-09 15:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might find that us geeky people are really cool , and "cool" people get along with them if they only give them half a chance. I was a "geek" back in the day, now ihave the type of personality that makes people feel at ease, and i am very entertaining. If i did not have the experience of practicing these skills when i was a lil nerd in school, particularly developing my sense of humor on "cooler" people. Without these experiences, I may have never come out my shell, and may well have been a "geek" until the day i die.
2007-03-09 15:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her, there is no reason you should treat your friend differently just because your other friends may or may not like her. After all you supposed other friends are supposed to be your friends and therefore the should respect who you like as a friend. Remember one good loyal geeky friend may be worth many times more than shallow other friends if they turn out that way.
2007-03-09 15:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That friend will probably be the only one who still talks to you once you get out of high school. But nah, dont invite her, shes too good to hang out with self absorbed little brats like you and your friends and shell be better off without you and find real friends that accept people the way they are like friends always should. dont invite her because you feel sorry, invite her because you like her company, and she has funny things to say, or whatever.being two faced is a REALLY bad trait, and its going to backfire on you eventually, believe me.
2007-03-09 15:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't you? She is your friend right? If your other friends don't like her, then they should be the ones to leave. Just because your "Geeky" friend is geeky, she shouldn't be the one left out of the party, just because of they way that she looks, or acts. She is your friend. you should invite her too. It wouldn't be fair to her if you left her out of your plans. What would she think, if she found out that you left her out of your party, because you, and your other friends thaught that she was "Geeky". She wouldn't want to be your friend anymore. That just wouldn't be any fair to her. Or you if you made that dession to leave her out of your party, and lose a friend over that. Think about it. Good luck!!
2007-03-09 15:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were a real friend you would not stereo type your friend as geeky and you would not even think twice in inviting her, im terribly sad for her, if she even considers you worth her time, better not invite her with an attitude like that, you have no honour and no guts
2007-03-09 15:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're a REAL friend to her, you would invite her.
wat others think shudnt matter.
as a friend, you're thoughts are all that matters.
if u dont think that you can be a good friend to her, then why bother inviting her?
you'll just hurt her if you invite her and the others would mke fun of her and u wud just stand there, just watching.
that's like a slap in the face.
2007-03-09 15:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by hilary_aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋