My friend tells me that i am her best friend. She's not myy best friend though. My best friend i can tell anything to and i know she won't care (make judgements) my friend that says im her best friend i can't tell her everything, it feels weird to talk to her bout the guy i like, the poems i write and other stuff. What do i do tell her that she's not my best friend? or what?
2007-03-09 15:31:35 · 10 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she treat u as her best friend then u should appreciate of that. This means that one more person care about u. But if u feel weird to talk to her, you can just simply give a smile or try to refuse her question gently. Although you are not treating her as your best friend.
But, in my mind... I just treat all of my friend in the same stages. Because all of your friends would like to share your happiness OR sadness. May be sometime they are selfish and refuse to help you when you are in trouble.. We are human being so these cases are forgiven.
If you are totally cannot accept her then you can try to talk to her straightly and tell her why you don't like to be with her. But please don't hurt her since you are friends. ^@^...
2007-03-09 15:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jasling T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, just say the truth. Chances are she will be hurt, but you can say that things aren't going to change with your friendship, and you are only telling her because you value the friendship. Reassure her that nothing has changed, and this is how you've always felt. She may have a surprising answer for you.
2007-03-09 23:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sheris_Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her unless she asks you straight out.
Otherwise, just say " You're the greatest friend ever!"
That should make her feel good but isn't a lie. She probably is a great friend, just not your best friend.
2007-03-09 23:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to speak to her nicely so that you will not break her heart.Tell her that although she is not your best friend,you can still be friends with her.
2007-03-09 23:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by techno freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her assume you are--you know he truth-just don't tell her you are her best friend.
2007-03-09 23:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she more than likely say that she is your best friend because she can completly confide in you can trust you completly. Although she is not your best friend doesn't mean you can't be her best friend. in my opinion it sounds like she looks up to you.
2007-03-09 23:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by limegreen1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth
2007-03-09 23:34:41 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not have to tell her anything...Just dont share those things you dont fee; comfy with sharing with her...
2007-03-09 23:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest honesty is the best policy
2007-03-09 23:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Juliaysha247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes jealous of you never hang around poisonous people let her go.
2007-03-09 23:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋