what do i do to forget him !!!!!i had a miscarriage with him.
2007-03-09 15:09:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl I know just what u mean !!!! I have gone though the very same thing, and still continuing to go though it on a regular!
I don't think we ever , ever forget our ex, when you have some kind of history with them. the miscarriage between the two of you still bonds you together. Do not be surprised if he one day talks to you about the past and what u guys went though.
My ex and I just had that very same talk that I'm telling u about!!!!
Keep it together if u can.
2007-03-09 15:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lenaw. 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Uhm, you had a miscarriage with him?? So what, you had a failed pregnancy and nothing happened. It's really not that special. You can choose not to let go of your ex if you want. You'll always remember him and don't focus on the miscarriage, that's just not healthy. Why would you still love a guy just because your uterus expelled a genetic accident? (most miscarriages are caused by genetic flaws so great the fetus cannot survive)
Maybe you need to seek therapy to get over the miscarriage. It's not like you lost a child.
2007-03-09 23:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that the 1% that wouldn't mind screwing him a few more times behind your husband's back?
If it isn't then what 1% is it? The "friends" 1%? What a crock of sh*t.
You are deceiving yourself and not doing a very good job of it.
Either you married too soon, which was stupid. Or it has been quite some time and you refuse - refuse - to forget this guy, which is also stupid.
Hey let's play 'Turn the Tables' for fun. Your husband walks up to you one day and says, "I can't give you my whole heart - my ex who I loved banging will always have a piece of it." How many times do you kick him in the balls? 119, or 120?
Plus you are hiding this information from your husband.
You're a real piece of work, you are.
2007-03-09 23:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Isn't there a reason he is an ex? You have a husband, if you can't give him 100% you shouldn't have married him. The best thing to do is close that chapter in your life and concentrate on your future with your husband!!!
2007-03-09 23:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I would like to think that my husband has my whole heart but i can't let go of the 1% that my ex boyfriend has" Then your marriage vows were a lie.
2007-03-10 03:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't let go of things like that. They are a piece of who you are now, and that's the person that your current husband loves. It's ok to realize that you loved your ex, as long as it doesn't effect your current relationship.
I imagine that your husband has similar feelings about one of his ex's. But what's important is that you love each other now and in the future.
Best of luck, I know it's hard... but it will all work for the best.
2007-03-09 23:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe that every time you love someone, you leave a piece of your heart with them. You can't forget your past, the past makes you who you are today.
2007-03-09 23:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love who u are with & let an ex stay an ex
2007-03-09 23:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a history with someone, a traumatic event happened that will be with you forever, so it's natural to think of someone who was with you at that time. It's ok to think of him, obviously it didn't work out for a reason so just appreciate your memories and don't dwell.
"Everything happens the way it's supposed to" is my favorite quote.
2007-03-09 23:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by MissDixie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling and help if need to be to get past the ex and work on your marriage with your husband... Let the past be the past and move on with your marriage and you life now. Good luck to you and also go to http://www.drphil.com and email him for help if need be with this.
2007-03-09 23:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋