im begining to hate my life?

Question

i just found out that everyone talks about me and no one "really" likes me, they were just pretending to. also i am having boy problems and some other stuff. what should i do to help get me out of this slump?

and to cmmluvv- im not 12 im 15 by the way!!

i didnt do anything wrong- someone that hates me started all these nasty rumors about me and everyone beleives them! and the worst part is that no one will let me explain!!!

Answer 1

This is just part of growing up. If they don't like you fin, you don't need them.

There are LOTS of people like that in this world, let it roll off your back and move on.

Ash

Answer 2

Be a little quieter around these people and they will have nothing to talk about and all that talk will die down. If "everyone" dislikes you, then I'm sorry, but you are doing something wrong. So you have to find out what the reason is in your case. Why not go to the school counselor for some discussions about what the problem could be? You could also throw in the boy problems and other stuff and get her advice.
You may not be that sensitive to other people's reactions, and so not modulate your behavior when they express subtle disapproval because you didn't recognize how they were reacting to you, and that will make you unpopular.
Good luck.

Answer 3

unfourtently it's a sad part of life that only gets worse as you get older. Don't worry about it, people who talk about others are often immature and jealous and obvisouly have nothing else better to do with their time. Plus keep in mind there is a thing called Karma...trust me it works! When all else fails kill'em with kindness. You dont have to stoop to their level. As far as boy problems, your still young and the guys u like are just that..."boys". Needless to say you wont find any real men at this age so you'll just have to deal with their immature dumb ways..but its okay. Although that doesnt get better as you get older either, some get worse. But all will work out for you. Stay true to you and all will be fine.

Answer 4

Heyyyyy Beautiful but oh so lonly,
Did you ever think about poeple just following the croud?So this b*tch starts these rumors about you- and poeple think thaqts its what Every one id doing- so they are going along with it!

There was this new girl at school- she moved from FL-like me...but anyways-we were talking in pre-algabra and she told me she hated her life- and i was just like wow-pretty strong feelings there- But i became her friend- and ive done some Major Preppy peppy-uping-and she is a New girl!!She wears bright colors-and she laughs!
So dont think that just because you hate your life now-you are always going to!
The best way to brighten up a day-is
Chocolate!!!
Shopping!!
BOYS!
I dont know if you can do any of these things ;)
but im sure you can figure it out some way!

Heres how to brighten your day (even though it says someone elses-just put a You where there is a they!)
Instructions
STEP 1: If the circumstances are not too desperate--say a botched haircut or a date disaster--try chocolate, the universal elixir. The bars from www.bloomsberry.com say things on them like “Chocolate makes it all bearable” or “Magic fairy chocolate.” Or try their "Emergency Chocolate." Place it in a glass candy jar with a note reading, “Break in case of emergency.” STEP 2: If chocolate doesn’t do the trick, it’s time to bring out the big guns--spa treatments! Try to meet your pal for a lunchtime treatment, but a good alternative is to come over with a pumpkin mask from The Body Shop (www.thebodyshop.com) and create your own spa experience. STEP 3: Add a guilty pleasure item like a stack of tabloid magazines. The celebs seem to have way more problems than us regular folks. Their troubles and fashion faux pas should distract from whatever ails your friend. STEP 4: Good luck and fortune are will turn the beat around. Grab a copy of the "Good Luck Book" for lucky charm ideas that go beyond a rabbit's foot. Or nab some good luck bling, like a wishbone necklace, from Red Envelope (www.redenvelope.com). STEP 5: Find the humor in it all. Figure out why your friend is bummed out, then help them laugh at it:
•Work-related: http://www.officeplayground.com/bosstoss.html
•Boyfriend related: http://wishingfish.com/manpunchbag.html
•Girlfriend-related: http://www.wickedcoolstuff.com/gryobalegobo.html
•Illness or Injury-related: http://www.wishingfish.com/mrhappy.html
STEP 6: Send some comfort food like mac and cheese or cookies and ice cream to your friend's workplace, school or home.



I hope this helps and doesnt seem to superficial-i mean it with my heart!yours truelly-your BFF!@

Answer 5

I remember what it was like being 15 and experiencing what you wrote. Looking back, this is what I remember of that time of my life....

15 year olds are so worried about what people think of them they talk about others to try to take the "spotlight" off them, to make themselves look more important than they are...it's a game with many lessons to be learned.

First you shouldn't really worry about it. Be yourself and try not fill the expectation of others...you'll make friends who like you for you. I know it hurts to find these things out because you want to be liked by all but the truth is you'll meet many people who don't like you and who you don't like either. And that's okay. Be true to who you are.

As for boys....you're way to young to be having "boy problems," no matter what they may be. Boys will always be boys (even as adults) and you've got more important things to worry about....YOU.

Talk with your counselor at school...that's why they are there. They'll be able to help you, and if not, refer you to someone who can.

Answer 6

First of all relax. Confidence is the key to everything. Act like you don't care.

Next, find that person (or two) who is a nice, caring, friendly person. Become fast friends with them. Don't think there is no one like you. Pride yourself on your talents/hobbies/accomplishments, and find something that you have in common with that person-something which is not readily ended on the basis of which you can built a foundation of friendship.

Once you have friends, and more importantly confidence, go on and tackle your problems. If the school is talking about you, don't care. Ignore people who are mean...

Good luck!

Answer 7

well maybe its cause your being stuck up. I mean there must be a reason why 100% of the people would hate you. I dont know how you are, only you. Maybe you are snobby or mean. Try talking more to people and let them know you are not what they think you are. FIrst impressions are everything, so if they already have some on you, then it will b hard to change it.. GOod luck!!!!!!!

Answer 8

Why should you start hating your own life because somebody dont like you ? So what they dont like you dont expect everyone to like you. People that "pretend" to like you are weirdos anyways they have to "pretend" to do something and here you are not pretending your being real. Do ya see the difference so just say the hell with them this is my life and who cares if nobody likes me. GoOd LuCk

Answer 9

I'm sorry I'm not trying to be harsh. If nobody likes you, I'm pretty sure there's some reason behind it. Is it because you're mean sometime or annoying, or is it stupid like the way you dress, or your past reputation? Think about the first two and try to fix it. Good luck!

Answer 10

I too hate my life, but instead of looking at the downsides of your life, look at the good parts! And if no one likes you, they are missing out because I am sure you are a nice person! If they don't like you, get rid of them and get new friends. EVERYONE has boy problems at some point in their life! Just relax, everyone has problems!