Please help me ok here is the problem.Me and my friend have the same taste.Well there is this guy that I have liked for a whole two years.But one year ago she told me she really likes him and I never told him I liked him.Thats one promblem .The other one is similar-There is this guy my friend likes so do I and he asked me out and I said I will think about it .What should I do??
(im 13 lol)
*dont take that against me
2007-03-09 14:58:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
13 that's a hard age. Sounds like you both have the same taste in boys. Talk to your friend about it. Maybe she feels the same way. You should be able to work it out.
2007-03-17 15:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by rapger54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh theres nothing wrong with liking a lot of guys at 13, trust me! Well first of all which guy do you care most about? I mean dont say no to dud #2 if u are not even sure if dude #1 is going to make his move! I always think personality is a good way to look at a guy, but cuteness doesnt hurt either, lol! and about your friends.... think about it.... Who is more important. Not trying to sound shady or anything lol. I just have a lot of guy friends and they treat me much better than some of my girl friends... And if they are your friends they should support you, even if hurts them a little bit, I mean hey your 13! Its not like there WONT be other guys! lol! I'll im going to say now is, Friends should be there for you 100%. True friends. throughout pain, love, happiness, tears, and the whole crazy thing known as Life!
Hearts&Hearts
Emma
2007-03-17 15:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does this sound so familiar?! haha..
okay. If you both like the same guy, it actually isn't all that bad. Depending on how you look at the situation, you either have a rival to compete with, or you have a great friend who will have no problem whatsoever staying up all night just to talk about how gorgeous he is.
With the guy that asked you out... mention it to your friend that he asked you out and that you haven't answered yet. Obviously you care about her feelings on this, so let her know that and see what she says. If shes a true friend she'll be happy for you and tell you to go for it. But don't rub it in her face. Just because she's happy for you doesn't mean she has to constantly hear about how you got him and she didn't. If you really like the guy and she seems alright with it, go out with him. But don't lose a great friend over a guy because trust me, there are so many more out there.
2007-03-17 14:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
K girl this is to easy for me. If u really like the guy that asked u out y not go for it. Let your friend have the other guy. DON'T waste your time over one guy. See I did that for almost 5 years and I broke it off with him, and I'm TRYING to move on. HM at 13 I had my first boyfriend. But after him I basically thought about schooling and stuff. So its up to you what u want to do really...either go out with this guy that asked you out and 4get about the guy u have liked for the past 2 yrs OR Hurt ur friend and go out with the guy that u 2 both like.
2007-03-16 22:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by angel5469ca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k. here is what I think that you should do. First of all, you are only 13. You aren't married yet, he isn't married yet, or so I hope. So really, you are able to do whatever you want to do. As far as, you being worried about hurting your friends feelings, just tell her, that he asked you out first. You be the judge of weather you really like him or not. If she gets made over the fact that you got to go out with him. She will get over it. It's not like they were dating, and you went out behind her back with her boyfriend. You are young, do what you want to. Good Luck
2007-03-09 15:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I understand that you want to be loyal to your friend, but the guy asked you out and not her. If she is a true friend, she will be happy for you. It would be different if they were boyfriend and girlfriend and then you went out with him, but this is not the case and so she has no claim on him and shouldn't be upset if you go out with him, because she knows that you like him too. Good luck with this!
2007-03-09 15:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young but at least your asking for advice instead of doing anything without knowing why....Nothing wrong with hanging out with friends...guys or girls, However, at this age don't lose a GF over a guy...let her know he has asked you out and see what she thinks and decide from there what you really want to do.
2007-03-09 15:05:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her you like him and go out with him, if she's your real friend she'll know no matter what boys are in the sight you will always be friends.
I went thru that like... 5 years ago, and we're still good friends.
Boys come and pass, but friends remain.
2007-03-09 15:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by mourline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should get to know him a little more. I had a problem in the beggining of this year. I liked this new kid and well my other friend ask him out for my other ex best friend. she new i liked him and she kept going out with him and I couldnt take it anymore and so I went up to her and said that you knew i liked him and she said that she didnt care so i told her that i didnt want to be her friend anymore so thats how she became my ex best friend.
2007-03-17 14:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i always say either choose ur frand or choose love.
if you choose your frand say no to the guy, you'll be regretful though,
if you choose love go ahead and say yes cuz that's your chance right there.
And ur only 13 still have a long life ahead of you so don't worry too much about little things like this
2007-03-16 15:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by Hoa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋