hey my peeps just wanted to know if u would be upset if ur best frands mom said that u were a bad invlence on her and she also said that u were rude and disrespectful to ur parents?? we ahve been best frands now for 10 years its very hard please help i need advice 2! thanks peeps ASAP
2007-03-09 14:58:06 · 11 answers · asked by tiggergrl1236 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off.. It's friends. Secondly, I'd be very upset. She shouldnt have the right to say that about you, but it depends on what you do in life. If you're a druggy or an alcoholic, then I would probably think bad of you as well. You just need to tell her that you're not a bad influence, you do what you do because that's who you are, and no one is gonna change that.
2007-03-09 15:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you rude and disrespectful? Are you influencing her to do things she shouldn't do?Examine yourself and your actions, or your motives behind what you do. Are you thinking about your friends best interest? Are you kind,& courteous to her parents? Do you abide by their rules & wishes? I'm sure if you examine your own motives, you can pretty well figure this one out yourself. If you find that you have been fairly judged, apologise and change. If you feel you were unjustly accused, then sit down & talk to them, let them get to know you better. Maybe you come from different generations, but you should respect each other none the less.
2007-03-09 23:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
indeed i would get upset especially if she has been my friend for ten years,and her mom doesnt want me, sometimes in life youve got to prove and correct the wrong notions about you by other people, sometimes you really need to show that you are not the person they think you are, but if along the way you see that indeed you are really disrespectful and a bad influence its about time to change for the better. cause tendency is not only are her parents mad at you, there would also be other people annoyed at what you do.
2007-03-09 23:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i guess i would be upset, i wouldnt want anyones parents thinking im a bad influence. They might not let your best friend see you as often if they have a bad opinion of you. If you want to get back on their good side, be really nice and respectful and dont talk about/to your parents in a negative way in front of them.
2007-03-09 23:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my parents think my best Friend is a bad influence and she is rude and a ***** but u know what they must be right it happend to me because i realized that my Friend was a bad influence to me.
2007-03-09 23:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by blah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda got what you ask but not really. Are you drinking? I think you should slow down and think before you write.
2007-03-09 23:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by BABY GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I had people label me too & judge me all my life. & my frends parents would always blame me even when i wasn't around, try to iggnore it & still be ther for your freind
2007-03-09 23:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset if I were you. Infact I was,I've been told this several times,and its bullcrap. I just try to overlook it. I know its not that easy but try to.
2007-03-09 23:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would kinda be upset but one knows her/himself better because everyone u meet is gonna cricize u in a bad or good way.
2007-03-09 23:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont care bout them
2007-03-09 23:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋