I'm almost 35. I've never been with a woman, but I have always been attracted to women. I met Leigh 2 years ago. For the past 6 months we've been dating, and fooling around a bit. I think I love her. This may be wimpy, but I am really scared of falling in love with her. I've been 'Straight' through a failed marriage, university, and all the other big things in my life. This is the biggest thing ever. I am really messed up... and don't want to be. Tomorrow night (sorry if this is crude) is 'the night' and I feel like my head is going to spin off from worry and nerves. Has anyone else been 'here' before? Any words of wisdom?
2007-03-09 14:45:10 · 0 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be yourself. Stop worrying so much. You'll be fine. Does she know she is your first woman? If not, be sure to tell her so she can take things slow if you need her too. It will be ok. Trust me, You'll have a good time and realize you were freaking for no reason. Best of luck to you. (And don't be so scared of falling in love... Love can be a wonderful thing with the right person.)
2007-03-09 16:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋