I had sex with a girl and I am only 13 years 0ld. Well i liked her then next thing i knew i was in the bathroom haveing sex. One more thing she is pregnet we tried the error proof test (EPT) Now i dont know how do i tell my parents.
2007-03-09 14:18:41 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Unprotected sex at thirteen did you not get the lecture. You do know that babies cost money. Anyways, there's is no right way to tell you parents this. Has this girl who you got pregnant told her parents yet? Are you guys even dating or was she just a random chick? It is best to tell your parents as soon as possible, you do not want them to hear about this from someone else. This girl you got pregnant is going to show and people will talk. Telling you parents is the least of your concerns, so just tell them and get it over with, you have to think about providing for this child. So rip the band-aid of quick and just tell them and get it over with
2007-03-09 14:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you are in a lil bit of a screwup situation now. Try confidential helplines first and hear them out. i can't think of any abortion centres that will help 13 year olds abort as having sex with a minors is against the law (although you are one yourself).
The only thing to do is to suck your gut in and get ready for double parental attack. If she was 16, at least abortion without anyone knowing is a possiblity but when she is 13, you are facing a wall.
Have courage and tell. You HAVE to face the consequences and don't think of doing anything else more stupid than you have already done.
Be brave young man.
2007-03-09 14:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by sweetashess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex doesn't just happen. You made the decision to have sex at 13. I imagine that her parents are going to be very upset with you. You will probably end up having to go to court. Her parents are going to want money to help raise the child if they don't take their daughter to have an abortion. The money will have to come from somewhere. Your parents will probably end up having to pay some kind of fine for your foolishness. This is something you will have to live with for the rest of your life. It's not as if her parents are going to let you forget about this any time soon. You really created a big problem for yourself.
2007-03-09 14:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
best way to break the news to your parents is to let them know you were weak, and were intimate with someone and didnt use protection. Then go from there and let them know she used an EPT and it showed she's pregnant, and that your confused and need their help, and apologize. your parents very well may freak, but dont freak back remember your their baby saying your having a baby, and that's probably the furthest thing on their mind right now, they will be in shock, as you are... Give them time to digest the idea if needed, before you voice you opinions too much, unless they ask for it.
But remember please that it took two of you to make this baby, and it takes two to raise a child as well! (if not more!) its a lot of work, a lot of blood sweat and tears... but they are precious beings as well that give a new love to this world, so innocent and pure
I really wish you the best of luck, I have butterflies in my tummy for you.
2007-03-09 14:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Why? ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing to do is fess up. It is going to be VERY difficult. You are probably going to be blasted, and if her parents want to pursue it, stating that you are the father, they could hold your parents responsible for the financial care of that child until you are 18, and then you take over the child support for 13 more years...
I think that you ned to sit down and have that talk with them rigth now, because they should hear it from you and not a law enforcement officer or attorney...
good luck
2007-03-09 14:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thirteen is WAY too young to be having sex. But what's done is done, so tell your parents now. They're not gonna be happy, but you made a mistake so now you have to deal with the consequences. I really hope everything turns out ok for you.
2007-03-09 14:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Fernando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a man.. I`m not sayin marry her but you better be there for the child and no matter what anybody says that is the most important thing.. tell your parents what happend and that you know that you are young and you know your chioces were wrong and that you accept full responciblity for your actions but never say it was a mistake because your child was ment to be by the will of god and that child is not a mistake...good luck
2007-03-09 14:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by hannah h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to own up to what you did. You may want to take an adult relative with you for support. Make sure you take a DNA test after the baby is born. Good luck to you!
2007-03-09 14:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not feel you can talk to your parents try talking to another adult.
Are you afraid to tell your parents because they will be disappointed? Are you afraid to tell your parents because you feel you will be in BIG trouble?
Seek help from a school counselor or from the health department. These adults have had training in situations like yours and may be able to lead you in the right direction.
2007-03-09 14:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by bleachbl0nd 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
always tell the truth and it will set u free because when you lie you have to continue to tell them to make up for the other one you told. be a man and do the right thing. they may understand and they may not but at least it won't be eating at you and they will come around to help.i do hope the girl was'nt of consenting age or she could be in trouble but you must still tell the truth.
2007-03-09 14:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋