Talk to your wife about how you feel.
Good Luck
2007-03-09 13:56:44
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answered by zen522 7
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I'm not sure what your question is, nor did you state what the difference is in your ages, but from what you have said I am assuming you are much younger than she is. If I am correct in this assumption,then it is wonderful that the two of you have had such a special love. Love like yours is rare and a true gift from God. It doesn't matter what other's think. There are always those that are judgemental, but God says only He has the right to judge. I think it is wonderful that you have loved and cared for her for so many years. God bless you both.
2007-03-09 22:47:22
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answered by ceegt 6
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People will judge no matter what. Its your life do what makes you happy. If it is a genuine marriage and love i say your lucky to have found it. It only happens once in a life time sometimes. I believe i have it. I have a family and everything with my hubby who is 31 and im only 19. But i chose this life cuz its what makes me happy. I don't like the fact that my hubby will age faster and may die befor i do when i may be like 50 or so but its the risk i take because every second i have with him i wouldn't change for the world and we take care of each other now and will in the future. My hubby is the same about trying to please everyone and is a nice guy and always helps someone out when they need it. My hubby asked me why do i stay with him cuz im so younge is scared i will leave and sometimes is like i dont want to hold you back. BUt i made it a point im not going anywere and i love him till death do us part. He is happy now i stayed and loves me more now that he breath and let all his emotions out. Just tell your wife you been by her side for 33yrs and your going to continue to stay there if it takes the rest of your life. And if your younge you may met someone and want to remarry after she passes one day we all have to go sometime. And it will be ok. DO what makes you happy and tell her this and show her this too. And if you dont want to re marry don't its your life. I couldn't see myself remarrying after i met my wonderful husband. Cuz there is only one him like there is only one of her
2007-03-09 22:22:33
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answered by everlasting_matchstick 3
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can u speak to your wife, without the daughter present. lots of times children from a previous marriage will cause troubles. could this have anything to do with family money? could be the reason your step daughter is wanting u out of the picture.
2007-03-09 22:02:12
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answered by jude 7
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well bless your heart .and how old are you ? is this a serious post . cause i think when i am in my 90's the last thing i will want is a new relationship with a new guy , but hey if you are serious and thats what you want go for it . i won't judge you . and bless you for being a caring husband to your wife.
2007-03-09 22:00:45
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answered by Anonymous
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proud put, ty,,,,,you ver right to many , come on the web, to judge other,, when they cant clean their own front door,,,, i to been with the same women 33 almost 34 year, an their never be another one to take her place,,,,,you got a great wife,,
2007-03-10 08:39:51
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answered by ghostwalker077 6
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sometimes we need to move on no matter how hard it may be. Open a new chapter in your life you and everyone has that right, it's also ok to put yourself first for once.
2007-03-09 22:13:25
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answered by cutiepie81289 7
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well i dont know if this is judging but how sweet i wouldnt want to find another either as im pretty sure you are getting older and she is your love why find another if she is your true love you wont ever be able to replace her and why would you want to
2007-03-09 22:02:04
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answered by Avaria 6
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I would talk to your wife if I wasyou and listen to her views on the matter
2007-03-09 21:58:25
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answered by glamour04111 7
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what? she is alive and you want another womn? no, continue to honor your commitment to this woman of yours, get right before God now. concentrate on your spiritualness, put no confidence in the flesh. sounds like you have another in mind, forget that.
2007-03-09 22:08:19
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answered by Anonymous
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