Just like about a half of month ago I had sex with my b/f. I was on my period and have been on it for about almost 3 months straight. (I asked my mom to put on on birth controll to fix it but she thought I wanted it just to have sex), but anyways, yes I did use a condom! But I thought my aunt got home so I made him run to the bathroom and get dressed but it wasn't her and he put the condom back on some how and we finished. After that day my period just like stopped. And, I thought nuttin of it. But then like 2 times I found blood in my panties and the 1st time I though nuttin of it. But the 2nd time I told my boyfriend and he looked it up and sent me this thing on 1st signs of pregancy! And, I had more then half of them! Like I have been feeling really tired and stuff. I dunno if this is just weird signs from getting off my period after having it so long or im pregnant or something. I can't even tell my mom cuz she don't even know I have had sex. What should I do???
2007-03-09 13:49:58 · 9 answers · asked by shortie_love53 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
your probably not pregnant, but go take a test. And Never Ever EVER Ever reuse a condom.
2007-03-09 13:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Pregnacny test: buy one at the drugstore. Take the test.
2. Talk to your mom. She's got to know what is going on. At the very least, she will probably get you birth control pills even if you have disappointed her.
3. You may be anemic from having such a long period of bleeding. You should see your doctor about irregular periods that last that long - anemia would be a possiblity.
4. You're too young to be having sex. And why in the world would you have your boyfriend in your house having sex with you? Or in your aunt's house?
5. Give your mother some credit - she judged accurately that you don't have enough self-control to wait to have sex. She still is going to be the person who will be there when you need her so at least try to be honest and respectful to her.
2007-03-13 02:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't ever, ever, ever reuse a condom!!!! That is the number one, NO NO! Secondly, you are young, your hormones are completely out of whack anyways. Third, you need to take a PG test. Planned parenthood can do it also if you don't have the means to buy one. Then when it comes back as hopefully negative, you need to ask your mom or aunt or someone to take you to get put on the pill. Your periods are enough of a reason for that. I was on the pill at 12 due to very heavy ones.
2007-03-09 14:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by punkin_eater26 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question
1. do you think you may be pregnant?
2. do your breasts hurt, like you had a bruse?
if you answer yes to Number 1 and No to number 2 you are NOT pregnant, if however you do not think you could be AND your breasts hurt you are in trouble.
Now, this is only my personal experience, i found it worked for friends of mine, well once i asked them these 2 questions.
Do i think you are pregnant? No, i don't
Do i thing you were irresponsible? YES
... but than again you probably know that yourself, I'm sure you'll never re-use a condome, think of everything that could have happened... all those STDs out there... i'm sure you learned your lesson.
But do take a pregnancy test, just to make sure, because if you are pregnant you need to find out all your options. And you have to face your parents.
Don't ruin your life.
If you are pregnant, be grown up about it. It's not your baby's fault and you are to young to take care of it properly without your parents help... and even though you might be in love with your BF, but statistics show it won't work, only on VERY FEW occasions. Give the child up for adoption, to a loving caring family.
Good luck.
Mel
2007-03-09 14:22:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you only had your period for 3 months and you are still very young and your hormones are everywhere. chances are you are not pregnant. you used a condom, good for you. if you are really concerned about it, take a test. also, call your local planned parenthood and see if you can get on some birth control without your mother knowing. i would want to know if you were my daughter, but obviously she is not going to help you and you are just going to have sex anyway.
2007-03-09 13:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 options, ignore the possibility and hope you're not, or own up to your actions and tell your mom so she can take you to the doctor.
2007-03-09 13:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that you are. But you need to get a test. Next time be more careful.
2007-03-09 14:37:49 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a home pregnancy test and take it.
2007-03-09 13:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
see if you can talk to his aunt and maybe she will get you a test. If it is negative, then don't worry about it.
2007-03-09 14:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋