Ok there is this girl in my class who is goin this reall bad routine in a gymnastics assembly in front of the entire school. I dont mean to be mean but its really bad! I dont want people to laugh at her cause i know they will. Me and her aer not really good friends but ya know.....any way i dont know if I should....
tell her its bad but that might make her upset or depressed
wait and see what happend but the whole school might laugh at her
Or do a routine with her but I REALLY dont want to cause i stibk at gymnastics and it would be horrible......
Which onw do you think or any other better suggestions?
thanks a ton!
2007-03-09 13:48:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No i dont think you really get it she is kinda the girl no one likes (no offense) so even though she is good everyone will laugh and if shes bad....it will be a circus and she is bad! So there is no improoveing i dont know if I should just tell her to not do it at all!
2007-03-09 13:56:04 · update #1
I would tell her what would happen of course...but she is REALLY sensitive like the smallest thing can make her depressed or angry. Thats why im so concerned
2007-03-09 13:57:41 · update #2
Maybe ask her she'd like some help with her routine. Just tell her you've got some good ideas that might make it more interesting. It might bring you closer and you could become better friends.
But if she says no, don't take it the wrong way. You tried your best. Good luck x
2007-03-09 13:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can get her a gift and write a really nice note stating that you are afraid that this will happen. Have an adult/teacher help you write the note. Then have that same adult/teacher give the gift/note to the person. You can sign is at "a fellow classmate" or something like that. Then if they decide to continue it will be off your back. Ultimately it is their choice but you will feel better if you make a kind gesture.
Hope this helps!
2007-03-09 21:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by RedPower Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her i know what it is like to be really humiliated. tell her then help her to make herself better. she can improve if she works hard enough. but tell her that there are some pretty immature jerks out there and they will laugh at you no matter how good you are.
2007-03-09 21:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hilary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, i would tell her but break it down gently to her
2007-03-09 21:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋