If you want my opinion, and it is no judgement of you or your situation, I would say that it is wrong regardless. Outside of that, it is your decision, and there are in things in your life that you must weigh out and consider.
It is too late for an abortion pill to work. You sound like you are far along enough to need a surgical abortion. To know for sure, you can go to a clinic and ask. I wish you good luck and the best in life regardless of what you decide.
2007-03-09 13:56:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Before you make your decision please read this study....
Abortion Is Four Times Deadlier Than Childbirth
New Studies Unmask High Maternal Death Rates From Abortion
http://www.afterabortion.org/PAR/V8/n2/finland.html
I pray that you will let your baby have a chance at life. There are so many other options if you don't want this child. There are many programs that will help you, possibly a family that would adopt your child and could pay for the rest of your pregnancy expences. 30 more weeks of pregnancy seems like a small price to pay compared to a lifetime of guilt.
If you read the above article, you will learn that there is a good chance that you will be needing mental help after you make a choice like this. I don't feel like this is a choice woman are supposed to make, just by looking at the mental repercussions that women go through after abortions.
Lastly, I want to say this is my first time really posting anything on the internet like this. I was doing some random research and came across this website and felt like I needed to tell you this. I hope this doesn't come across as arrogent or rude, I want this to be something you will really think about.
2007-03-12 12:02:34
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answered by Laura 1
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I believe it is indeed wrong to have an abortion no matter how far along you are unless you are a victim of rape or have serious health issues. Human life should not be viewed as "I don't want this baby anymore" let me get rid of it as if it were old clothes that you can disgard. At 6 weeks your baby already had a heart beat. This is a real human being no matter how small and no one should have the right to stop a child's life just because it's not wanted and is viewed as insignificant. There are so many people that would love to adopt a baby please reconsider.If you carry this baby full term and you see your precious child you will wonder how a horrific thought as abortion ever entered your mind. Children truly are a blessing. You will never regret having your baby but most people regret having an abortion and then it's too late. I know because I went through a similar situation and I can't imagine not having my baby boy who has brought so much joy to me and my family.
2007-03-09 14:06:13
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answered by dani 1
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It sounds like you got pregnant on purpose and now have changed your mind. You are too far along for the pill and would need a surgical abortion which is also potentially dangerous. I don't believe that abortion should be used as contraceptive device. As others have said, you need to check w/ your Dr. or local clinic for what your options are.
Of course, if you are not ready there is always the option of adoption. There are so many couples out there who can not have children of their own, but are ready to be parents & would give your baby a good home. Whatever you do, please get couseling 1st as an abortion or adotion can take a toll on you mentally and physically. I have know others who have gotten abortions and it took them a long time to come to terms w/ it. Make sure you really study what your options are. Remember, the abortion is final and may possibly lessen your chances of getting pregnant in the future.
2007-03-09 14:07:43
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answered by melonamc 3
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Oh my god, abortion is murder. What is wrong with you people? You should have been on the pill before to prevent this if you didn't want a kid. Abortion shouldnt be a choice unless u were raped. There is no pill to get an abortion now. There is a morning after pill, which means you take it the morning after you had sex and got knocked up. Look up on the computer an abortion, look at all the pics of it. They suck it out with a vacumm and kill it. Yeah of course it is wrong, and you will have to live with knowing u murdered ur own flesh and blood for the rest of your life, and it will haunt you. trust me, i know ppl who regret having one. Your baby already has a heartbeat, it is living, a human, an innocent little baby who never did anything wrong. You are wrong for even considering one. Seriuosly, if you dont want the kid, then have it and put it up for adoption. There are lots of people who cant have babies that want one and would adopt one. Trust me, those ppl would never even think of murdering their child. In some states it is allegal, because it is murder. Shame on you. You must be young if you think there is an abortion "pill" because there isn't. You need to get surgrey to have an abortion and from what i understand it hurts like hell while they are sucking it out of you. From this point forward, get on birth control or use a condom.
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
Here is a picture of your baby at 8 weeks, look at its little hand:(
2007-03-09 13:55:39
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answered by marriedsoon 2
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49 days after conception is the limit on Mifeprex. Go to a clinic or doctor's office, they'll give you a pregnancy test and an ultrasound, and ask the date of your last menstrual period, and see if you're eligible for a medical abortion, or if you require a surgical procedure.
"Wrong" is subjective and depends only on how you feel about the situation.
Oh, and of course the fetus has a heartbeat and circulatory system early in development: Without circulation, other body systems couldn't develop. How exactly do you people think the body works?
2007-03-10 12:01:47
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answered by shoujokakumeijchan 2
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Don't listen to the pro life nutcakes. Every time an abortion of an unwanted fetus is stopped, and forced to birth, enough resources to save 12 starving children is used. To save the most lives it is better to abort and then to give to a charity that feeds starving third world children.
When you abort there is no death of a human life. The soul of the fetus is not killed, just the mass of cells. So by aborting you are saving lives and by keeping the fetus you are causing the death of 12 loved and wanted children.
God Bless you , it is your choice.
2007-03-12 14:51:46
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answered by Give me Liberty 5
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My best friend had an abortion about 2 years ago, and it's still really, really difficult for her to deal with. She can't even talk about it. I was around 8 wks preggy when I heard my son's heartbeat for the first time. If you heard your baby's heartbeat-I don't think you could go thru with an abortion. Please, please think about this. I know there are lots of different circumstances that can make a person turn to abortion. My husband's mother was raped as a teenager and she chose to keep the baby. If she had aborted him, I wouldn't have my hubby, or my son. Abortion is not just a quick fix. You will have to live with this decision for the rest of your life. Even if you don't want the baby, you could always put him/her up for adoption. Please at least watch this video before making that decision:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-case.html
2007-03-09 14:54:56
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answered by cuddlz123 2
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I'm not sure that you would be able to get the pill. This is a good time to abort, because complications are much less likely. Call an abortion provider and see what your options are. You could also take the pregnancy to term and put the baby up for adoption (an option to which I am morally opposed, but this isn't my choice to make). Whatever choice you make, I wish you luck.
Edit: Please don't listen to the "pro-lifers" here, and please don't go to Abort73.com (it's a disgusting, horrifically biased site that will lie to you, like everything else pro-life). This is your choice, not theirs.
2007-03-09 14:12:44
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answered by Sinthe 2
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It's wrong to have an abortion ANY time during pregnancy!
And before going to get the abortion pill, you may want to visit the link I've provided...that pill will not only kill your baby, it can kill you as well!
2007-03-09 14:09:06
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answered by ? 6
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