2007-03-09 13:44:24 · 9 answers · asked by casanova 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds simple...she is greedy!! I was raised to never deny my man anything, so i really am not sure what it is like to be spoiled...yet, if i have to work that hard, it is not worth it.
2007-03-09 13:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by somethingoranother 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A) you might not ask for what you want. You won't get it if you don't ask.
B) your wife is not going to do things for you in appreciation for all your hard work. nice idea, women don't work that way. I don't know if men do, ask the women!
C) rather then doing everything possible for your wife, try simply to be a good husband. Do not try to cater to everything she asks, as she'll lose all respect for you. Be a good man. Spend the rest of your time and effort on yourself, go to the gym, work on your own interests. Worst case, you're happier with yourself. Likely additional outcome - your wife finds you more interesting again, and starts giving to you - out of love and attraction, not out of debt.
2007-03-09 22:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself are you working hard because you are the man of the house and you feel its your duty or is it so you will get something in return from your wife? Remember everyone after Adam shared a bite of that apple he had to labor the ground to provide food for himself and Eve. Its your responsibility to work and if your wife is working then consider that a privilege its not her duty to do so. If you are looking for a pat on the back for doing what you do , you are always going to be frustrated no matter who your with.
2007-03-09 21:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by spirit2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're trying to do all the work for her and you.
Make her do her part if not dump her
2007-03-09 21:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you welcome to a woman's world .We only no what you tell us and that isn't that much so how do I no what or if you do anything at all for her. You need to tell us more about what is going on in your home.
2007-03-09 21:58:33 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women are selfish by nature. Pure and simple. It goes back to the dawn of time. Remember Eve - she went and screwed up everything when her dumb @$$ picked that apple.
2007-03-09 21:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i agree with Joe B
2007-03-09 21:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by super chile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife does...
2007-03-10 04:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to do less and see if she notices....
2007-03-10 02:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋