I'm 25 and not looking to be a mistress.
2007-03-09 13:35:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And guess who was here to read it pinneythewoo.
2007-03-09 14:01:38 · update #1
Sounds like you're a little jealous Michelle, not to mention a little ugly.
2007-03-10 12:34:32 · update #2
because you have low self esteem, and the thought of someone elses man looking at you as a sex object (for thats all it is) excites you.
2007-03-09 23:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are not looking to be a mistress? You've asked at least 7 questions like this in two weeks (I got tired of counting).
Sounds like you are obsessed with this topic - or with a married man?
It's Friday night and you are here. Where's the married man? At home with the wife and children he really loves?
Go find a single man. It would be better use of your time.
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aj_lets_go_shopping, I'm here all the time and I can read through a lot of the b.s. The difference is that I've got a man of my own and am not pursuing a man who is married =)
Fess up - you're other questions clearly contradict what you are saying here. You are looking to be a mistress.
2007-03-09 21:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Quit trying to act like your not obsessed with the idea of being some temptress to some married guy out there.
Honey, It's not hard to get attention from men, married or otherwise and one day when you've been around the block a few more times you will probably look back and realize what a loser he really was and you will wish that you didn't allow yourself to think you were in control when in reality you just let yourself get used.
You're to high on your own sexual power--don't be an idiot. No man who is paying THAT much attention to you while married is a winner. Get it?
2007-03-10 00:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by michelle5196 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Seek counseling. It is unhealthy to be the mistress or to pursue a married man. Denial isn't good either.
No wonder wives forgive their cheating husbands.. there are too many single women scouting out married men. You do have a lot of questions on this topic... good luck
2007-03-09 21:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by texas_bcd 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is obviously where u get your self worth, it makes u feel good boost your ego when men are attracted to u. but this not where one gets their self worth, because one day your looks will fade, u will get old, and than what are u going to have, when your beauty is gone. who wants to be someones mistress, and have to take the morsels u get, and be alone all of the time when he is with his wife. never works. your wasting your young life on things that will never bring u true happiness. u need to get your self worth from your character, your reputation, your honor, doesn't come from men and beauty on the outside.
2007-03-09 22:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its a combination of the first and second answers. Seek therapy before you become a mistress.
2007-03-09 21:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want what you cannot have. Good thing you are not looking to be a mistress, that is a good decision.
2007-03-09 21:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You definitely have Daddy issues.
Perhaps your dad didn't express his love for you enough if at all or perhaps he wasn't in the picture or you felt his love was conditional, or perhaps he only showed affection to your mother but never you.
Any way you ought to try and resolve them or it may be difficult for you to have a healthy relationship in the future.
Good Luck.
2007-03-09 23:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by gourmetkid 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because your really mistress material... and sooner or later... you will give in....Mistress
2007-03-10 00:04:43 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It makes you feel good because you know you are sooooo dam hot and all men even me want you badly. Can I have you?
2007-03-10 00:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by seahorse 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋