The one posting this question letting it get to them or the one that has to go around talking bad about you?
2007-03-09 13:31:28 · 23 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Perhaps a bit of both. But it doesn't matter. You have to decide whether you want to play into the hands of someone who would speak badly about you or not. Letting go and moving on provides you with the security you need to get on with your life and not worry about what is being said. You can't control what this person says, but you can control whether you chose to be around them anymore. Good luck.
2007-03-09 13:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by teacupn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call... I'd say the one posting the question, cause a lot of people talk trash and don't think of it again for a second afterwards, they do it more as a way to release stress, and it's over, but the person posting the question is letting it bug them, you see what I mean?
2007-03-09 13:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who post the question is most insecure for letting it get to them.
The one that has to go around talking bad about someone else isn't to secure either, or she'd have better things to do.
~~~~Jill
2007-03-09 13:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one going around talking bad about you. You are obviously just hurt, or confused. How does that make you insecure? It doesn't... the other person just knows you're better.
2007-03-09 13:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is don't let it get to you,because if you do then they win because they are controlling you at that point.People talk#### about people all the time.
Also The key is not to react to it ,or try to find the humor in it. This may sound sick but the most horrible far fetched b.s stuff that I hear about myself the bigger kick I get out of it.,because what they are saying is so stupid and far from the truth you seek comfort in knowing that you pity their pathetic petty ways or way they strive for attention(at your expense)Rise above it because you are the bigger person and most importantly you know who you are and what and where the truth lies.They just tell lies to make their pathetic shallow life seem as interesting as yours.Smile and walk on......
2007-03-09 13:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 11:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by matzen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's my fellow classmate because she's jealous for some reason. She was talking behind my back but I found out from another friend. I find her insecure and she tries to make me look bad to hide her insecurities. That's what some people do.
2007-03-09 13:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by Etania 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the one posting the question. This is why....
You should be flattered that someone is talking bad about you, know why?....
Because you are invading their mind. They could be thinking and talking about a variety of things but they choose YOU to think and talk about! let them talk away, you know if what they are saying is true or not, and that is all that matters.
2007-03-09 13:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one going around talking bad. That;s where it initiated and when someone dumps on you ( ie the one talking about) the person being talked about is then left to deal with the other person's problems.
2007-03-09 13:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, who's talking bad about you? Well...it's obviously them.
I've seen your 360 ...and your questions...you don't sound like an insecure person to me.
2007-03-09 16:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sunrise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋