If you are not married, can you really cheat? If that is so, what's the point in marriage? What...when you are married now you "really" can't cheat?
I'm tired of people who are not married saying "he cheated or she cheated". What's the difference between a married person that cheats and a single person that "cheats".
Single people have all the sex in the world before marriage and then get married they say "vows" before God...yeah, the same God that despises sex outside of marriage....and then as soon as their spouse cheats, they cannot forgive them. Even worse, then they quote the bible as justification for divorce when there is adultery. Forgetting that they had so much sex outside of marriage which is also forbidden by the bible. What gives?
I am tired of everyone being so hypocritical. Aren't you?
2007-03-09 13:23:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All I'm saying is a single person cannot cheat because they aren't supposed to be having sex outside of marriage anyway. So if you have sex outside of marriage you are not cheating you are fornicating no matter who you are having sex with. (or not supposed to be having sex with)
2007-03-09 13:28:21 · update #1
Oh. I get it. I promise not to fornicate with anybody but you. It's clear now.
2007-03-09 13:29:45 · update #2
If I steal from everyone's home but yours, am I still not a thief. Or because I didn't steal from you, then I am not a thief?
2007-03-09 13:33:02 · update #3
So if you know someone is having premarital sex, can you trust that person only to have premarital sex with you?
2007-03-09 13:36:34 · update #4
First i like your statement on stealing.Second,yes I'm a hypocrite but i like it that way.Yes people can cheat if they are single.Cheating is having sex when the other person doesn't know about it.
2007-03-09 13:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by mosrider2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes cheating is cheating, but whern your not married is is easier to leave because marriage is more of a committemnt @ least suposed to be. If you can't stay faithful in a committemnt as women /men we feel u won't be able to stay faithful in marrigae either. It is too dangerous anyway to sleep around with aids, herpes & worse things are coming about everytime u turn around. If you love that person enough to stay together & you don't want anyone else usually people get amrried because they love is that strong. It's better not to cheat either way. It shows u have value on yourself
2007-03-09 21:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel exactly the same way as you do. I don't care about marriage much anymore. Seems to be more of a scam that anything else. What you marry these days is a used car with lots of mileage. Women, you know what I'm talking about.
So for married dudes like you and me, that don't want to lose everything, we have to obey these stupid rules, even though there are hot young beautiful women at every corner that continue to hit on you.
Dang it. Its a double edged sword. I love women, but at the same time I hate them.
Right now, I'm in the quest to find the perfect loophole in marriage that I can exploit to be as selfish as I want to be and the women cannot say anything about it. I'll let you know If I ever discover that loophole.
2007-03-09 21:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have made a commitment to someone (married or not, remember common law is not a marriage but considered a legal union by law) you ARE cheating if you have an emotional or physical relationship with someone else with out ending it with the person you have committed to, plain and simple.
2007-03-09 21:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by MsTrust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Single people have all the sex in the world before marriage and then get married they say "vows" before God" but then you are making the ASSumption that everyone believes in "god" or what you percieve to be "god".
2007-03-10 04:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex without marriage is fornication and a sin, adultery is also a sin but--the marrige is a sacred and holy union befroe God, nobody should have sex outside of marraige--but the vows before God are sacred, yes sin is sin, but when you break the marriage covenant; you are destroying what God said is Holy, and all sin has bad repercussions and will be punished. it isn't right to be deceitful when only dating, but the sin is the fornication part.
2007-03-09 21:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Cheating is when you have a relationship with someone, married or not. If you have that relationship with them & see other people it's considered cheating. If you are single, then you won't have this problem.
2007-03-09 21:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May I recommend a good book to you? It`s called "The Monogamy Myth", it talks about the real reasons why human beings are unfaithful. It` an eye opener....
2007-03-09 21:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't understand how some people can stay with one partner for such a long time... I think it's only possible to people who actually marry their soulmates..
but it's very rare...
I get sick of people after months... I think it's very unhealthy to be with the same person over and over again... Its like retarded... But I do get sick of everything else pretty much the same way ...like a new home a new sofa a new car....etc...clothes.... I get sick of everything in short tiem.
I think it's unfair to be with one person for long long time and not enjoy other people... that's like being in the prison...
2007-03-09 21:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's just all about owning up to the commitments people make. If people promise something, they should deliver. Oh, and don't hurt the people you love.
2007-03-09 21:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋