Cuz the thought of having sex with a chick makes me feel ill, BUT I am sexually attracted to them...much more than I am to men... Is that normal??? Seriously BE HONEST! I just want to know if this is normal or am I a lesbian? or bi?
2007-03-09 13:20:30 · 7 answers · asked by wtf 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think finding the same sex attractive makes you gay. I find some women very attractive however the thought of having sex with them well let me just say NEXT. So look at all the beautiful women you want and then have all the sex with all the men you want.
2007-03-09 14:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by mloinc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how you can be "sexually attracted" to someone but not want to have sex with them. I thought that was the definition of sexually attracted -- that you DID want to have sex. Perhaps you're just young and still working through things.
Experiment safely, and don't worry about putting labels on things.
2007-03-09 21:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha see it's the other way around for me. The thought of having sex with a girl makes me jump for joy. The hard part is actually going up to her to have a conversation. Which is super weird. But I think you need to be more detailed in your question. Is it do you want to kiss them? Or hold them in your arms? Or what? If yes to both of those, than your more than likely bi, and just unsure about sex with them.
2007-03-09 21:30:22 · answer #3 · answered by radioxrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction to your own sex is normal we look for things we have with someone in common with, when we are suffering with PMS do we call our borther's or dad? No we call our Mom's or girlfriends, we as women are allowed to have intimate relationships with other women because we are the ones who nuture and console..
Men on the other hand have had to be strong the protector of the families the ones who hunt for food. Acting sweet and feminine has labeled them to act Gay because that is how they have been portrayed throught out life
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Have you ever see a Gay Rocky, Rambo or Terminator? of course not they are seen as frail Interior Decorator types in the Media.
That's why everyone frowned upon Brokeback Mountain and said there are no Gay Cowboys unless they are part of the Village People.
2007-03-09 21:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can be EMOTIONALLY attracted to people without being sexually attracted to them if you have an emotional attraction to someone its not sexual, you just like their company. You are not a lesbian.
2007-03-10 00:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur attracted to them that says u do wanna have sex w them but thats ok too
2007-03-13 18:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by ggwassent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really just try and see what u like
2007-03-13 21:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Evil Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋