My fiance and I had a bad fight because of the way he and my best friend were exchanging a couple of emails. She email him greeting him for his birthday and somehow he replied for me in a very close way, she emails him back in the same way but for me it was like she was flirthing on him. Now we will be going to the wedding of another friend, where my fiance will meet for the first time all my closes friends including this friend who had email to him. She expects to pull his leg a lot and she told me that. I don't like the idea. Should I tell her that I did not like the way that she email him before? Should I tell her that I saw those emails like she was flirthing on him? Will this be a good idea to show her that she should try to keep some distance? I know she does not have interest but she can get carried away with her tease and they look more like flighting. I feel unconfortable about this trip but I have to attend. Do you think I should ignore this and see how he act?
2007-03-09 12:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by C H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she's not a friend of yours; yes mention you saw the emails wishing your fiance a happy birthday; don't mention you were mad or jealous or that you thought she was flirting; she knows she was; and just enjoy the wedding
2007-03-09 13:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all...i don't think its right for your friend and your man to be emailing each other..even if she's your best friend. now and days girl you cant trust no one.. that's called flirting already and that's the truth!! I think you should tell her the way you feel if she is really your best friend she will understand.. i had this one friend that would do the same thing and I'm married. all she would do is flirt with him whenever she would see him to and girl i was not stupid i know what was going on. so i stoped calling that girl cause she was no good..
2007-03-09 13:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by PRI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the whole thing go - - - this time. Don't bring it up and don't say anything. If she's a flirt, then that's just how she is. You will offend her if you say anything and you wouldn't want to ruin the occasion with this hanging over your head. The mature thing to do would be just to go, have a good time and file it away in the back of your mind in case her flirting becomes an issue again in the future with your bf.
2007-03-09 13:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be completely honest with your fiance, this is the person you are planning to marry. You and him need to resolve this before going on that trip. If he really cares about you and loves you, he will pay no attention to this other women, including her plans to pull his leg and will stay as far away from her as he can.
2007-03-09 13:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring it up at the wedding. Talk to her about it now and let her know that her actions are making you uncomfortable. If she's a real friend; she'll back off your man and if she's doesn't then you'll have one less friend. Talk to him too. Don't let your insecurities fester. They shouldn't be E-mailing each other.
2007-03-09 13:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by chelsb1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-09 13:00:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like much of a friend to me.
2007-03-09 13:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you need to tell her that you saw the emails that she sent your BF. and would like to know what she was planning.
2007-03-09 13:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, and make it clear that it offensive to you.
Honesty is something that needs it's own space to breath.
2007-03-09 13:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her you saw the emails and let her know you are uncomfortable with that.
2007-03-09 13:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by curiousin08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋