i feel so ugly all the time. I'm 15. My hair sticks all up by the end of the day and it has not body whatsoever. I don't wear makeup. I'm flat chested. I'm chubby. I here people talking about me in class abot how hideous i am. I wear baggy t-shirts all the time. And I dont have a bf.. never had. Never had anyone that I think has been interested either...that wouldnt really bother me but everyone around me has someone and i just want someone special too...all of my friends have bfs and it ust makes me feel left out :( andy suggestions on boasting morale?
2007-03-09 12:54:35 · 7 answers · asked by juliecat10 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Hon, PLEASE look inside for your own inner beauty and before you know it, EVERYONE will see it. Don't let "THEM" target you.
You are unique and one of a very special person.
2007-03-09 13:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugly ducklings grow into beautiful swans. You're only 15 and yet to fully mature. The best hair product I've ever used is Dirt by Jonathan. It's available from Sephora, a little pricey, but goes a long way and makes your hair do incredible things. If you're flat chested, buy a lighted lined or padded bra for a little extra help. If you're feeling a little chubby, go walking or jogging. The exercise will help you take off a few pounds AND boost your morale. Look at some magazines for new ideas. You don't have to hide behind baggy tee shirts. My own daughter had similar feelings around 13 and went on to become Homecoming Queen at 17! You'd be surprised how many changes are still in store for you as you mature.Pull your hair back in a smart ponytail if it really sticks up. Got a flat iron? Experiment a lttle, and try a little makeup. Just a light touch...maybe gloss and mascara. I bet you have some amazing features you are overlooking. Listen, I know you're feeling a little left out right now, but honey, high school only lasts a minute. You will forget the majority of these people the day after graduation. Don't be so hard on yourself. Study hard. Bury your head in your books to prepare for college, but stop burying it in the sand. Use your personality. Use your mind. Use a sense of humor. You are not ugly; you are a unique individual. Ask a sharp older adult for some tips. She'll be flattered. The boyfriend will come in time. Just be yourself; be original. Draw from your true inner strength and ask God for His love and direction in your life. Success is the sweetest revenge.
2007-03-09 21:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juliecat-
I know exactly how you feel. I'm also fifteen, and I feel bad about the way I look all the time. I've never had a boyfriend either, and I really hate my hair, too (its really dry and crackly and gross...). If you feel chubby (I do,too...I wear sweatshirts to school almost every day) maybe try exercizing or joining a gym. I decided that this summer I'm going to start excersizing and running through the park every day, because I've heard that excersize makes people a lot happier. Also, try focusing on other things, like schoolwork and other academic stuff. Even when I feel like I look horrible, I always try to study and do my homework because I know that is what is really going to count in the long run. That way at least I'll know that I'm smart even if I'm ugly. I just try to tell myself that someday I might be pretty, even when I feel really bad about myself. I hope this helped a little- I know exactly what you're going through. You're not the only one who feels ugly all the time.
2007-03-09 21:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by kitkatlovr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what???....15 is a difficult age..unfortunately people judge one another based solely on looks..how unfair....
deep within..you are already beautiful....
and you will grow up....your hair will look gorgeous....
and you'll learn how to apply make-up..and your chest will fill out...and you will become slimmer...you won't be wearing t shirts all the time....
what you will have learned is that time heals all things...
but most of all you will know compassion first hand..because of the way you were judged when you were 15....
hold your head high...it's not the beginning of the race that counts..but the end!
pay no attention to what anyone says...be yourself...
be beautiful!
2007-03-09 21:02:22 · answer #4 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore those people, make som new friends, feel more confident about yourself, bring a hairbrush and hair spray to school, wear minimal makeup-neutral colors at first, bring pressed powder every where you go. this will help with shine. about the boyfriend thing, you're not missing anything- they can be fun sometimes, but my first and only bf so far, was a jerk to me and my friends, so i dumped him. they only really have one thing on their minds- you naked. sometimes, that's not cool. try some cute wrap shirts and mini skirts. they are cute and flattering.
2007-03-09 21:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweetcherrypie_♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only fifteen-wait til you hit 18, you'll likely be drop-dead gorgeous by then. So start acting it!
2007-03-09 21:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need some help.
What you should do is wake-up in the morning and look at yourself in the mirror and say,
" I'm pretty, I'm cute, and i like my self. "
BUT you HAVE to BELIEVE IT!
In 30 years it won't matter what you looked like, what clothes you wore, what you body lokked like, what WILL MATTER is what You did to make things BETTER!
2007-03-09 21:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥ I WANT YOU ♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋