A person I know treats me in a way that seems kind of wrong and bad I think she personally does treat me wrong but I dont know the motives, I talked to someone about the way things are going and how I'm being treated. Now is that considered backbiting?
2007-03-09 12:44:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes you have to talk with someone else to vent your feelings first otherwise you will end up blowing up & saying things you don't mean & sometimes talking can help you understand. Talk to the person at fault though, & see whats really going on in her head. If she still treats u fowl leave her alo0ne & fine someone who will treat you better.
2007-03-09 13:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you are guilty of doing the same things she is guilty of.
If you really want some resolution to this problem, then you should talk to the guilty party - her.
Only by expressing your concerns to her can you come to some sort of resolution. Whether it is her stopping or you moving on.
2007-03-09 20:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would have made more sense to confront this person and ask her what her motives are since she is the only one who would know them...
so yes it would be backbiting....
2007-03-09 20:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much talk, that's what I think. Drop the bizz-ich and don't worry about talking sh*t about anyone to anyone. Know thyself and don't worry about anyone else.
2007-03-09 20:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should approach the person directly and not badmouth behind her back for you may be wrong to think that she is intentionally hurting you
2007-03-09 20:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by hignome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋