my friends call me ditzy and stuff. i try not to be though. its been kinda hurting my feelings. and for spring break i am going to see a guy tht i like and i know he likes me back. how do i not act ditzy or "blonde" around him?? and all of a sudden it seems like i am getting dumber the longer my friends put me down?? is my fear of becoming dumb becoming a reality?
2007-03-09 12:21:42 · 9 answers · asked by Lolly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but i am not seeing the guy by myself. we will be in a group with my old school ppl.
2007-03-09 12:25:07 · update #1
No, but what you are doing is letting other people's opinion of you become your reality.
You are not dumb or ditzy. But you are starting to believe that negative garbage that is coming out of your friends' mouths.
Tell your 'friends' that you do not appreciate the insults. If they continue, then find friends who can see appreciate you for who you are and for what you can offer them.
As for your new guy. If you stop believing you will act blond or ditzy, then you will not act that way.
Best wishes
2007-03-09 12:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try focusing on just being yourself.. instead of worrying about coming off "ditzy". Just be who you are, and let him see the kind of person you are, and I'm sure everything will go just fine. :)
2007-03-09 20:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let n e one put u done all of us have something special that we can do that others cannot and sometimes they envy us for that.. im sorry to hear that ur friends call u that but it sounds that they are not your friends.. just be your self and the guy who likes u will like you for who u are not for what people say u are.. hope this helps good luck with they guy lol =)
2007-03-09 20:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,you are not getting dumber!You seem to have self esteem issues because of your friends saying such things.You need to tell them it hurts your feelings and if they don't stop find some new friends.
2007-03-09 20:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give yourself a complex over this.You are who you are and these "friends" are not your friends if they treat you this way.See this guy and be yourself.And tell your friends how this behaviour hurts you.If they do not knock it off then it is time to find some REAL friends.You go girl!
2007-03-09 20:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by thomas c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ignore them and tell em they aren't really bein your friends they are making fun of you then find something they do stupidly and call em by that name and tell them thats how you feel everytime they call you ditzy or blonde
2007-03-09 20:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youre just making you feel worse about yourself. keep your chin up and tell yourself that you are smart, attractive and NOT ditzy. you dont have to listen to your friends. ignore them.
2007-03-09 20:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by bulletprooflonliness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think so but just tell your friend how it makes you feel when they do call you that just be open and things will prob be fine and just try to be your self a round them do not try to be something your not
2007-03-09 20:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by boo_boo5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you. he will like you for you. dont allow your friends to put u down. if they really are your friends they will like you for u too.
2007-03-09 20:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Stephanie Dianne~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋