Yes it's another question about Britney...?

Question

Well actually about all the people who are judging, slamming and kicking a girl who is obviously in need of some serious mental help. I don't understand how people can be so cruel to someone who is in such trouble. I've read how people have taken down websites they had done in her honor. The same people who have put her up on this pedistal are the exact ones now who have the most awful things to say about her. This girl is not superhuman. She is exactly like you and I. What if it was your siter, your mother, your bestfriend who was going through something like this? Would you kick them while they are down, give up on them, talk about them like they are trash? It's her so called fans that have placed her up so high and she knew that. She has been expected to live a perfect life with no room for mistakes until she finally cracked from all the pressure. It's a wonder it didn't happen before now.

Maybe it's because I'm dying of cancer now and I've started seeing things in a different way or maybe it's just because even before I got sick I like to think I had compassion. Whatever the reason...we look to these celebrities like they are God's or something. But when you get right down to it they are human just like you and me. So when is enough mean, hateful, and cruel remarks going to be enough when it comes to Britney and we start putting her in our prayers and send some good and postive thoughts her way. I'm just glad that her boys aren't old enough to hear how the same people that made their mother a star or now the same people dragging their mom through the mud. I was glad to hear that Timbaland and Justin, yes her Justin, are going to be there for her when she's ready to make her comeback and she will make a comeback.

So tell me, when is it enough for you? When do you stop the hatefullness & give some love compassion for this girl? I'll gladly give you 10 points for that

JUST SO ALL YOU GUYS KNOW WHO HAVE ANSWERED MY QUESTION WHILE I WAS ADDING DETAILS...YOU GAVE ME 2 STARS THAT WAS COOL BUT WHAT YOU GUYS SAID...THAT BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES CAUSE THESE WERE THE FIRST POSTIVE THINGS I'VE READ FOR HER AND I THANK YOU TRULY THANK YOU FOR NOT BEING HATEFUL AND CRUEL TO ME...I HAVE TO BE HONEST I WAS A LITTLE BIT SCARED TO POST THE QUESTION...BUT I HAD JUST SEEN JOHNNY CASH'S NEW VIDEO "GOD'S GOING TO GET YOU" AND I DECIDED TO STOP WAITING ON SOMEONE TO SAY SOMETHING IN HER DEFENSE AND JUST DO IT MYSELF.

YOU NEVER KNOW, MAYBE SHE, OR SOMEONE CLOSE TO HER WILL SEE THIS AND LET HER KNOW THAT NOT EVERYONE HAS GIVEN UP ON HER.THAT SHE'S IN OUR TOUGHTS AND OUR PRAYERS...

I MAY BE DYING BUT I'M LEAVING A VERY YOUNG GRANDSON BEHIND AND IT'S NICE TO KNOW PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT HAVE ANSWERED THIS TONIGHT ARE HERE IN THIS WORLD I'LL BE LEAVING HIM IN...YOU ROCK!!!

Answer 1

You are not dying of cancer.

You are living with cancer. Never give up the fight and keep a good atittude. You sound like a very good person and I will believe for you start getting better today.

Answer 2

I respected her for the first time ever after she shaved her head. Previously, (and still now) she was just another pre-fab bubble gum mediocre talented performer/singer who sang music other people wrote, and all the fans don't give credit where credit is due, to the writers, engineers, producers, managers, and choreographers.
But really, I always thought she looked like a pig, and wasn't attractive, but for the first time, I can look at her as someone different than another child star who made too much money being part of a facade with limited talent. Christina has more range, control and soul, but still, nobody should be called a Diva until WELL into their years when it's REALLY been proven. :)
So.... I'll probably never check back here, but all you pre-teens with your ears in the gutter can let it fly at me. But I just wanted to give you a heads up that you'll only be wasting time that you SHOULD be using to discover non-mainstream, non-commercial REAL music from REAL ARTISTS who actually write their own music. CHEERS!

Answer 3

Whether or not someone is a celebrity, people are held to certain standards and are expected to sustain them. Britney Spears has never grown up. She has taken the pop-star icon and her millions and has reached a level of living that puts her in an invincible state of mind. Failing to be a good mother, indecent exposure, shaving her head, substance abuse, fornication, and all of what else Britney may do, people are going to judge her. People all the time judge their friends, it's human nature to criticize each other. Britney Spears gets more because she is famous and because American society is so heavily influenced by the media, it is without a doubt that people are going to talk about her, rethink their opinion, loose the respect and iconoclasm they had for her. She is not going through anything less than she has been setting her self up for. Now she has to sleep in the bed she made for herself. And with all honesty, there is no telling that her career will recover from her fiasco she's in. Whose going to buy the album from that crazy, crack head, fat once-upon-a time star? Even if this is stereotyping her, it's not far from the impression the majority of population is getting.

Answer 4

I agree with you. She does need help. I think her kids need to go to her mother, or someone who isn't in the "lyme light" for now. I feel bad for her because she wants to be so perfect, and she can't. No one can. I'm not her biggest fan, and I never really was, but in the same respect, I don't think ANY one should be told to be perfect. She needs to get help, and with the support of fans, friends (TRUE friends that is), and family she can. I have a friend who I love to death! She has been down an extremely hard road, but I was behind her 1000%. I NEVER kicked her when she needed help the most. She did come to realize however that she wasn't able to take care of her child in the state she was in, so her mom agreed to take her kid until she recieved help and stayed "clean". She's now making a LOT of money and raising her second child. She is also about to be married. It kind of gives you hope when you see or go through something similar. I think Brittany can pull through this. She just needs the right people around her.

Answer 5

Bless your heart. I am so sorry to read that you have cancer. There is so much
of it. I may not care for Britney's actions, but you are so right. She is a sick girl
and does need all the help she can get. I hope she turns her life around and
spends time with her children. They are more important than any agenda she
may have. We lost our son 10 years ago come November. We didn't have as
much time as we wanted with him. He would be 41 now. Britney needs to get
herself together for them or it might be too late some day.
God bless you and I wish you only the very best. I pray that God will spare you
as you seem like someone who has a lot of compassion which you are
willing to share.

Answer 6

Well as you said Britney is going through hell right now, i think because when she was little and starting fame so early. She never had the golden teenage years without fame.
I think she just wanted to be normal but the press drove her to the mental break of insanity like shaving her hair off, having a lesbian phase etc... People should be trying to dis-encourage the people how make the world they should be right their next to them helping them along.

And for a second imagine your Brittney how would you feel, isolated, rejected and for what supplying us with the good kind of entertainment,



Well I say shame on all they sick people that are trying to hurt her even more what has she done to you to deserve this??


hmmm can't hear you

Answer 7

I really feel for Brittany. I can not imagine going through what she is and with everyone watching. It is hard enough to try and make the right decisions on a daily basis but to try and do it with everyone hoping you will fail must be unbearable! I truly hope that she finds the help she needs and that her children get their mother back. I hope that she finds some peace in her life and can get back some sense of normalcy.

I also can't help but wonder if part of her problem may not be postpartum depression. Having two children in such a short time and the marriage problems. Maybe not, but it just makes me wonder.

Answer 8

I agree with you fully because people are just seeing people a to have to be perfect and it is leading to worst things.With all that pressure I'm suprised she didn't do something worse.Stars are human.We all make mistakes but no one looks at us like that.Where do people think all the eating disorders, suicides, and more are coming from? People don't care.I am not just agreeing to get the 10 points.I think this is a real subject people need to recognize and understand.Its people shunning others because there not perfect and it results in horrible things.Well, I hope you get well so you can be with your grandson because I understand the love between a grandma and grandson.He doesn't want to see you go so keep fighting for him and don't let others bring you down like there bringing Britney down.

Answer 9

In a previous post I replied that she had shaved her head to reinforce the fact that she is not one of the most glamorous women in the world. It does contain malice (I cannot always resist) and an imbedded challenge...she HAS the potential to be one of the world's most glamorous women. If she has any sense she will go out and make enough of a gob of money to live to life's highest standards for the rest of her life. She could do this with one really good tour/album. Then she should chose a REAL man, retire, and completely remove herself from the public eye and enjoy a real life. Interesting to note that hampsters will eat each other in the same cage...humans can eat each other up (without the actual use of their teeth) one need look no further than the history of Micheal Jackson's nose (media complaints/criticism) to present day...looks like someone chewed it off. It would be refreshing for these two to make a come back esp...if they will make real music instead of a Hype/Sex/Smoke and Mirrors routine as we are seeing too much of this already in this supposedly advanced musically endowed society. Balanced Criticism? Prince recently did a bang up job of (making music) during the super bowl...he just had to muck it up a little with the usual Hype/Sex nonsense. The two ladies at his side were to die for.

Answer 10

I am so sorry that you have Cancer and not doing well. My mother has had cancer twice and is cancer free and that is a blessing. I would like to ask if you have been saved and are going to meet the Lord? Not to intrude but to give food for thought.
In answer to your question about Britney. Sometimes these things are done for publicity and no other reason. I am not saying that is her reasoning but it could be.
I have nothing against the girl but I am 52 and have no interest in her or her career...I wish her no ill but she makes her choices and must work this out on her own.
We had Elvis and that didn't end too well and it seems no one tried to stop him but in his case he really couldn't go out and she seems to go out too much.
I wish her luck but if she doesn't change her life style her kids will suffer and that is a shame.
God Bless You!!! How long do you have?

Answer 11

I'm so sorry about your loss, well, your "almost" loss. I wish I could honestly say that things happen for a reason, but I don't know that, and if they do, I have no idea why. As for all this hoopla about Brittany, leave it be already. She's just a mom, just like the rest of us that have made mistakes, we're just not in the public eye. I like her and her music, and if she has gone a little crazy, at least she's getting help. I wish you the best of everything for the rest of the time you have remaining, and for your loved ones.