My best female friend of over 10 years recently found out my secret ...and says she thinks its neat,cute etc....im so worried it will get out to our mutual male and female friends......shes like an older sis i never had ......recently after many drinks ...we where being real open and honest....about our skeletons in closet and kinks etc....next thing i know shes aware of my closeted secret and letting me try on her old sexy clothes...which i loved ....and she knew it.......just afraid ..loose lips ...blah blah blah ya know......can a woman be truely be trusted in a situation like this ya think?????
nervous and anxious here!!!
from a sexy closet crossdresser....
~moi
2007-03-09 11:49:09 · 6 answers · asked by ocxdresser 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you 2 have been friends for over 10 years, you should be able to trust her, I've had female friends that never told my secret. Plus, now you've got girl friend that likes your secret & would probably love to help you & dress you up too. So, just take it slow & see what happens, she's already letting you try on her clothes, so I think it looks promising.
2007-03-09 15:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's been your friend for a decade, you should be able to rest assured that she'll keep her mouth closed...notice that I used the phrase SHOULD BE.
If you haven't expressed your desire to "keep this in the closet just between you two" then you should. At least you'll have the mutual understanding that you choose not to have this out and about.
Don't speculate that she will not say anything even though she just may because after a few shots of Patron, people are subject to do & say just about anything! If she's a good person and a true friend, just be true to her and towards your friendship & tell her how you feel.
I'm certain that it's a sigh of relief to get it out, per se, but now you'll have the worries of whether it'll be like a leaf in the wind, so nip it in the bud...then enjoy your life. Who knows: maybe one night you two will be able to find a safe place (resturant) to go to together with you in full face!
Tilt your back, now SWAY!
2007-03-09 12:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by R C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally don't fully trust anyone, but you know your friend better then most if she is a friend of ten years so only you can be a judge of how trustworthy she . . .
2007-03-09 12:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by SexySlim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if she were just a casual friend, she would probably spill.But she seems to be a longtime friend, so she may not.
2007-03-09 12:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Candace A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she can keep that secret
2007-03-09 12:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how good a friend she is.
2007-03-09 12:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋