she's married but I don't believe in abortion should I keep arguing with her to keep I told her she could give it up for adoption and I would take it
2007-03-09 11:35:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If she's married, this is between her and her husband. Although you're the father, what good is that going to do?
In the end, it's her choice.
Also, by keeping the baby what is she going to tell her husband? "Oh sorry Honey, I had an affair and this kid is going to go to the father?"
She lost her marriage by cheating with you. How do you think it's going to "go down" when she becomes more obviously pregnant. She can't hide it forever.
2007-03-09 11:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are sleeping with a married woman and she is pregnant? Well first and formost...is the kid yours or not? How do you know if it is or not? This is a woman that is married and sleeping with you and God only knows who else, than she is entirely capable of lying about being pregnant. I don't believe in abortion either, but unfortunately in this country it is a legal question not a moral one, and your "lady" (I use this term losely) friend has already proven to be not so moral...I don't know man. WALK...NO RUN AWAY! and don't look back.
2007-03-09 11:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by akkrisgru 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you had unprotected sex with a married woman? I don't believe in abortion either, but do you think she's going to want to fess up about sleeping around, tell her hubby he's the one who got her prego, or "get rid of the problem?" Either way, she'll probably have to fess up to her hubby when she starts to show, your # shows up on caller ID, or when hubby sees a $500 abortion clinic deduction on his checking account? I'm honestly hoping something works out where the baby won't have to suffer for this foolishness. Is she sure it is your baby?
2007-03-09 11:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sirius's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good answer you know what every mom shouldn't adopt a baby. you know why because we have a fear of the baby saying your not my mom. thats why i think you should show here this i mean what if that baby became a national sciencetis and decovered how to run cars on water. you never know so i think that you tell her to stop the abortion. i am a bout to become a mom and i am 9 monts pregnate. good luck !!
2007-03-09 11:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by candy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please try your hardest to make her see abortion IS murder. Tell her to visit Deathroe.com Hispanicsforlife.com Abort73.com and show her pics of aborted babies, Make her see that its not right. Planned Parenthood (Klan Parenthood) was invented by a white surpremisist, who wanted to rid the world of mentally and physically handicapped babies, as well as colored children. She was an evil woman. Black women are 3 times more likely to get an abortion. please urge her to even just get an ultra sound, women who actually see their child are much less likely to abort, try not to get one at PP though, cuz they dont know how to use the machines. I wish you the best of luck and i will pray for you Good luck!
2007-03-09 12:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by metalstefl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to really make some other commitments to her,I gather her marriage is not actually the issue.If you are not ready to commit or she is not,then go to a lawyer,soon..The baby is the issue..yours and hers. She needs to see it as both of yours,although I realize your predicament...it has to be done soon. I am not sure about this one.
2007-03-09 11:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you obviously cant physically change someones mind, so i dont konw what to tell you, thats a tough situation, i think its very responsible of you to offer to take care of your kid though...
maybe she should just behonest with her husband, and suffer the consequences, she shouldnt have been having an affair anyway, is how i see it... or hey she could always pretend its his?...
2007-03-09 11:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by deceptions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is married??? Who is she married to you??? Or someone else???
2007-03-09 11:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her body, it's her choice.
YOU can do nothing.
You aren't married to her.
How do you know it's even yours?
The only right you had was to wear a condom!!
2007-03-09 11:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
you deserve each other
2007-03-09 11:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by the_skipper_also 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋