my cousin had her babies lelani rose and damen ardmani and my her boyfriend is denying them cuz they dont look like him I ASKED HIM HOW CAN HE TELL they are only 4 days old but i think he is cheating on he because he had hickies on his neck and not from my cousin and now we cant find the fool what should my cousin do
2007-03-09 11:28:25 · 18 answers · asked by MEXICAN PRIDE 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
~Be grateful that the jerk left! She and the twins are MUCH better off without him.
2007-03-09 11:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
File a petition in the local family court, get him in there asap for a paternity test so he cannot just walk away from her and the babies. She if anything with twins is going to need his financial support. All-be-it, it should not be about the money if he is going to be such a jerk after she has just come home with the beautiful babies.
But she does not want to be left out to do this all alone. They will make visitation and support orders when they get to court and the paternity proves he is the Dad.
As a divorced mom with a GREAT relationship with the Ex, court is still the only way to have things in case of fallings out!
2007-03-09 11:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by ChelYox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 4 days old my children didn't look like me or my husband. So, the BF is a dumb@ss. You cousin should put his name on the birth certificates (if he really is the father, not saying anything bad about her, promise!) and then sue his @ss for child support. All it takes is one simple paternity test and the results could find the court in your cousin's favor. The only way for him to not have any responsibility for these children is if he signs away his parental rights.
2007-03-09 11:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Andi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she definately shouldnt be with him... i know its hard and emotional raising kids on your own but if hes coming home with hickies on his neck what else do you need??? i think he sounds like a pretty sorry guy, i think your cousin should go ahead and get a court date for child support and dna test, which he'll have to pay for if the babies do turn up being his.
2007-03-09 11:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by deceptions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every boy denies that they look anything like the kids. I am 15 and when I had my little girl my BF said he didn't think he was the father because he didn't look alike. Well I proved him wrong and did a dna test.
2007-03-09 11:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kally 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be gratefull he is gone. I know it sounds bad but if he is accusing her of cheating then chances are he is the one doing it.. Have a paternity test done, and when they turn out to be his sue him for full custody and child support...
2007-03-09 14:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by auntietawnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if I ever marry a white individual identity want my little ones to % out as the two. Their mothers and fathers shouldn't call them in basic terms black the two...yet I do think of they're taught that by technique of society and on occasion while biracial little ones seem extra black they sense that considering the fact that they're dealt with like black individual they're going to % out extra with that. Like obama while human beings positioned signs and indicators up protesting against him on reported obama what you talkin bout willis? and yet another reported obama equivalent white slavery. those protesters have been mocking his race, and so i'm able to verify why he identifies as black. on occasion human beings gravitate to issues they sense gentle with. definite slavery has ended yet their nevertheless alot of racism in our society, which why you notice this kinda difficulty nevertheless occurring.
2016-09-30 11:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a paternity test done and figure out who the father is.
2007-03-09 11:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not want to take responsibility that's all. your cousin should get the D N A done.
2007-03-09 11:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she wants take him and get a paternity test done when it comes out he is she can get him for child support also did he sign the birthcirtficate just wondered
2007-03-09 12:12:21 · answer #10 · answered by MOM to megan eli jaiden and ryan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a DNA test. He CAN'T deny anything then.
2007-03-09 11:31:57 · answer #11 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋