My Big Sis, is a very desperate person. She calls the hotlines to meet men, or the chat rooms, but she's too willing to meet these strangers. I think it's really dangerous, can you please help me, help my sister realize her absession, is dangerous
2007-03-09 11:15:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U cant help her on this one.Believe it or not,she needs to find her obsession herself.U will not always be there for her all the time,so let her fly and do it.She needs to find out.When she knows,she will know what is best for herself.Best Wishes.
2007-03-10 05:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't have to do that to meet men. And Yes it is very very dangerous. You said it with you top question, help her understand she doesn't need to do that and she is beautiful. The right guy will show up without her searching in the wrong places. Going on line to look for someone isn't always the best idea. She will find the right one, it just takes time. By the way how old is she, it sounds like she's alittle to young to know what she's getting into. If she makes the wrong desision is may regret it forever. Tell her how much you care for her and that you don't want anything bad to happen. I hope that helps, best of luck, peace.
2007-03-09 11:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bah, she doesn't need these guys. She needs to know that she is special and important and worth something, without some guy to complete her. She should get to know herself better, what she likes and dislikes, what her hobbies are, what her favorites of things are, etc. She needs to be careful of any and all guys that don't know her, nor that like her for who she is.
Unfortunately, she also has to be willing to do this herself, because if she doesn't realize she has a problem, even a simple one like this, she won't do anything. I would also suggest, then, that you sit down and talk with her about this, and assure her you love her and will always be there for her when she needs it.
I wish both of you well.
2007-03-09 11:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are all kinds of beautiful, not just like the skinny gurls. everyone out there has there own taste and some men do like big gurls she just has to find the right one. and if she is willing to meet these guys she meets online then she shouldnt do it alone she should have someone go with her to be safe
2007-03-09 11:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some of your friends together (guys and girls) and take her out with you one night. She sounds like she's just really insecure about herself. Since she is willing to meet strangers so easily, set her up on a blind date with someone you know or have met.
2007-03-09 11:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by kaiyas_mom07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think big women are the most sexy women that God ever created. I enjoy big women. Tell her to be very careful of these guys and she doesn't have to compromise because she is big. Big women are the greatest, and she will soon meet the right guy. There are millions of us out there..
2007-03-09 11:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are just as many men out there that like big women as all the other sizes,not everyone likes the same thing including women,she needs to realize this,just like some men like Blondes,Redheads,Brunnettes,and so on.
2007-03-09 12:43:00 · answer #7 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a very dangerous thing she needs to get her self-esteem up and not look for guys to do that before she ends up getting hurt emotional or physically
2007-03-09 11:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by lost in a world with no end 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun your big sis is in trouble if she doesn't take procaution in this delicate situation. tell her u love her because of who she is and she should feel the same, and let her know that mr. right will come by any day now . she just needs to be patient she can't rush love. FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND TALK TO HER :)
2007-03-09 11:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bubble S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just need to uplift her self esteem and keep remind her self she is strong, beautiful and intelligent and better yet dont ever believe you need a man or anyone else in your life to remind you that you are special. Besides if you dont believe who will give you such a compliment.
2007-03-09 11:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by roro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋