he says its bc we have a 5month old and are already struggling....wat do u think??
2007-03-09 10:54:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Fix the problem. Send him to his parents house, where he belongs. If he does not want to commit to responsabilities, he needs to be with his mom.
Coming to an agreement can be quiet a challenge. However, if it is for the best of the baby, both of your futures. Does he has long term goals? it looks like he is only focused on the now, and does not care about the future.
Let him know how you feel, enficize that those are your feelings and that an abortion will definitely leave you stranded, emotionally, physically and espiritually.
What, does he think, that you will give in right away after having an abortion....? Asking to call me, I will make a little man out of him..! j/k
2007-03-09 11:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sergio Andrés 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are struggling, best to use birth control. An abortion will cause more emotional strain then the financial problems they solve.
You personally need to look within your relationship. You want to have sex, but don't want another baby because you can't afford another one. Abortion shouldn't be viewed as a solution to a problem!
2007-03-09 11:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_cincin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on birth control, use a condom, and pull out. If you are already struggling with one child, why on Earth would you want to make things harder with 2 kids?? They are a big responsibility, and you should first BE RESPONSIBLE people, and you should also be financially stable!
You can still get pregnant from his precum, so pulling out without a condom DOES NOT WORK!
2007-03-09 11:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i understand it from both of u guys but if he doesnt want anymore kids right now and u dont want a abortion wear a condom and be responsibile dont make a mistake by killing a child or bringing a child into this world and cant support that child and if he doesnt want to wear a condom then tell him if he cant wear a comdon and risk u getting pregnant then he cant tell you to get a abortion being he should know the risks when u have sex
2007-03-09 11:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by lilmama14n_28384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would make it clear to him that you don't "have" to do anything. I understand his point though - you want to make sure that you can do the best for the child you have before bringing a new one into the world. But for that to happen both of you need to be committed to birth control; use at least two methods. And make it clear what you are prepared to do.
2007-03-09 11:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by sparklish 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if you dont believe in abortion , then dont do it. I would never ever ever get an abortion because a guy told me too.
2007-03-09 11:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by Blondi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex, or at least protect yourself! If you are already struggling you should be responsible enough to not add to it. Wait until you are more stable before having another child.
2007-03-09 10:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You'd better be on good birth control if you don't want to get pregnant.
It is your body however, so your boyfriend can't really tell you that you HAVE to do anything.
2007-03-09 11:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your tubes tied or make him get a vasectomy or quit having sex. don't make your life any harder by getting knocked up and thinking that bringing an unwanted child into this world is going to be good for anyone
2007-03-09 11:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by count scratchula 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its your body not his, dont let him pressur you. You will have to live with it. You will feel the abortion physiclly as well as mentaly. Doe what is in your heart and what you can live with.
2007-03-09 11:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by babyyapi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋