my class had this man for one of our classes for a long time,because our actual teacher was off.He was quite funny but he was harsh on the students,and everyone kind of hated him for it.Even my own teacher would talk about him in a jokey kind of way.He struck up a kind of funny friendship with a few pupils in the class including me.I bumped into him a few days ago in the corridor,and later on that day,he had a heart attack and died.He took us so often and i just can't believe we'll never see him again.He had a family.I was really mad when i heard some people who disliked him celebrating it!I've been feeling about it,but i dont really know why i feel so bad?
2007-03-09 10:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Try; you're a good person?
I'm really glad that there are more people in this life who are sensitive to the way that others can be so cold.
Thank you for making me feel better,
and I hope this makes you feel better too.
You may end up in helping professions yourself.
I had this second garde art teacher who was NASTY!
And when she died of cancer, I regretted hating her.
I never would have celebrated.
2007-03-09 10:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad because you are a good person. The people laughing are immature and don't care about anyone but themselves. Even if you don't like someone, to laugh that they died is truly sad. The man had a family, people who loved him. You should be proud of yourself for caring. Don't question it. You have a heart and you care about people, this is a very important and great quality, it makes you human. If everyone cared the way you do it would be a much better world. Remember this... what goes around comes around. I truly believe in Karma. Treat those how you would want to be treated. Unfortunately some people won’t stand up for what they believe in and will just be followers so that they can “fit in”. The people laughing about this aren’t people who have much confidence in themselves. At least you have the guts to care.
You should be proud of yourself for being his friend. If everyone hated him at school I'm sure it was hard for him, so you were probably a bright light in his day.
2007-03-09 10:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by airam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you may or may not have been close, the fact that he apparently knew how to get a laugh out of some of his pupils. You may have wished you got to know him better, or you may just miss his humor. Either way he wouldn't want you to grieve but he is probably happy that you care for him that you feel a slight sadness. The fact he was hated and you out of a group of people did care about him probably made him feel good. It probably made it easier to live longer and love his current life.
2007-03-09 10:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being able to convey regret is extremely significant. clarify which you have been having a bad day, and so on. and which you're sorry. Your instructor will appreciate you for saying which you have been incorrect. Being a jerk won't help you or the instructor. i understand, i grew to become right into a severe college instructor and impolite scholars did no longer win. in case you sense undesirable, then tell the instructor.
2016-09-30 11:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He meant more to you than you thought he did. It's ok...the same thing happened to an old teacher of mine. Everyone "hated" her. She dies in her sleep. An so many of her students that "hated" her showed up to her funeral paying their respects.
2007-03-09 10:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Black_Beauty97 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you did have a close relationship wit him so maybe youre a good person just pray about it
2007-03-09 10:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he is a person anyone woulf feel bad abouit it ya know.
2007-03-09 10:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋