not being invited to hanging-out with her and friends anymore and the info getting back to my friends and co-workers i was keeping it from. And a good 2yr friendship gone terribly off-course. An opinions on this one?
2007-03-09 10:17:07 · 13 answers · asked by KID87 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You chose the wrong answer, buddy.
While Yahoo Answers users can help you make decisions, in the end YOU are the one that makes the final choice. Always remember that. Hope you can work it out somehow. :\
2007-03-09 10:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is, that this is one of the possible outcomes of asking others for advice and then following that advice.
Did you ever consider if you had been in a long distance relationship, and someone had felt that it didn't matter and made a play for your partner just because perhaps they lived closer to them?
At this moment in time, my own partner lives on another continent. Because I live so far away, certain people seem to think that it means that my feelings do not matter, or that somehow my relationship does not count. I resent this very much and wonder how those people could be so ver insensitive to my feelings for my partner. So, I dno't have a lot of sympathy for you.
2007-03-09 18:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that the advice you received didn't work. Those are the risks that you have to take. If the friendship was as good as you say, I suggest you give her some time and space but don't fade out of the picture.... or you could talk to her and tell her you value her friendship and want to continue in that capacity....
2007-03-09 18:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great answer stated above:
You weren't gonna be satisfied with just being friends with her anyway, so if you lost everything with her taking a chance on getting what you wanted, then that is a lot better then regretting not letting her know how you felt and wondering what would have been.
2007-03-09 22:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You weren't gonna be satisfied with just being friends with her anyway, so if you lost everything with her taking a chance on getting what you wanted, then that is a lot better then regretting not letting her know how you felt and wondering what would have been.
2007-03-09 18:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you are obsessed. If it was going to be a wise idea to tell her, you would have done with no fear, or doubt. You have asked the same question in many different ways and received many answers. Too much thinking and approval seeking. You are bound to meet someone new when you let go of this girl.
2007-03-09 19:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OUR LIFE IS LIKE A TREE , IT HAS ROOTS(PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT SEEN BUT HAVE AN IMPACT ON OUR LIFE) BRANCHES (PEOPLE THAT STAY A WHILE AND ALSO HAVE AN IMPACT BUT THEY GET NOURISHMENT FROM US AND SOMETIMES BREAK OFF) AND LAST , THE LEAF , LEAVES ARE ONLY ON THE TREE FOR A SEASON( PEOPLE THAT ARE IN OUR LIFE FOR A BRIEF MOMENT)BUT ALSO HAVE SOME TYPE OF IMPACT , EITHER NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE.
MY ADVICE IS , YOU MAY HAVE TAKEN THE WRONG ADVICE BUT IN A SENSE YOU DID THE RIGHT THING BECAUSE NOW YOU KNOW SHE WAS ONLY A LEAF IN YOUR LIFE AND SHE WASN'T MEANT TO BE IN YOUR LIFE FOR LONG . I HOPE THINGS WORK OUT FOR YOU , GOOD LUCK TO YOU IN THIS JOURNEY WE CALL LIFE.
2007-03-09 18:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by pure_sweetness1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't one of the ones who answered the first subject you made on this, but I think you dodged a bullet. She could have played you until her boyfriend got back, instead of letting you go now. You are free to find someone not involved to be with
2007-03-09 18:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Thats what you get for listening to us, you might as well pull the aggro postal worker syndrom on em now
2007-03-09 18:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by Goosh T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wish I would hv answered yr Q. I would have told u to shake yr head. Not much can be done now. when asking Qs give details that are important... like it involves work... will she blab to everyone... details!
2007-03-09 18:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by front door 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋