2007-03-09 10:16:35 · 10 answers · asked by bayleyluvshersteven 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
sweetie maybe your Dr should check you to make sure everything is ok good luck
2007-03-09 10:19:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very first time you have sex will be painful because your hymen is being broken. After that you might still be sensitive to the size of your partner. Try making sure you have enough lube going on down there and you are in the mood for it. If you are dry during sex it is going to be less comfortable.
2007-03-09 18:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by MOMMY585 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason for pain can be varied. There could be psychological reasons that make you tense up which causes pain during the beginning or you are too dry and need more lubrication.
Try using KY jelly before intercourse and see if that doesn't help. Otherwise see your doctor, I know its embarassing but they can help. Sex shouldn't hurt.
2007-03-09 18:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Hermit Crab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand sex hurting the first time you doit because a light layer of skin inside called the 'Hemen' is broken during intercourse and can cause both bleeding and discomfort. But as for other times, I suppose see your local GP for further information in regards to your concern. Good luck!
2007-03-09 18:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by KK21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a sharp pain becuz your muscles usually are tight and then when something finally loosens them up it hurts.Its sort of like a jar when you first open it, its hard to open and then after a while its easy so yea.
2007-03-09 18:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Pleasure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, sex shouldn't hurt at first ..But it could be you're not lubricated enough while being stretched. But it wouldn't hurt to go to your OB/GYN
2007-03-09 19:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie Hall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not quite ready yet. Try using a lubricant such as KY Jelly, and try for longer fore-play to get you more turned on.
2007-03-09 18:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by nimo22 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There shouldn't be pain during sex. Please talk to your ob/gyn about that. Don't worry about being embarrassed-I'm sure she's heard everything by this point!
2007-03-09 18:20:32 · answer #8 · answered by SuzeY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too dry, try a lubricant and try and relax, if you aren't relaxed your muscles are tight and it makes it harder for the penis to penetrate
2007-03-09 18:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by missmeliss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because your body is being stretched in a way that it is not use to.
2007-03-09 18:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋