i wonder is he thinking of me of the one for him to marry, he's been talking about it for the last 8 months could someone please give me a hint
2007-03-09 10:13:59 · 15 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well we have been talking for the last 8 months IM he lives in another town, but we have meet face to face before and he left the door open for me to ask him anything at anytime, tell him anything at any time, I think he is a little insecure as i am. It's like he wants to know more about me. I'm not use to this i'm scared he my not want me but i think he does because he has left the lines communication open for me and i have never had that before with a guy. Matter of fact when i gave him my phone number thank me for it, he suppose to be in town in the next week or two and we suppose to meet up. So now do think he is still looking for a wife, he do mention when i talk to him
2007-03-09 10:30:50 · update #1
The guy is giving you a hint and is looking for some type of response from you if that's something you want. You should hint one way or the other based on how you feel.
2007-03-09 10:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by menkette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really wanting to get married, tell me why. You better stop and think what a marriage really is some people get it their mind by daydreaming what playing house really means. I tell you it isn't a bed of roses, it is the hardest thing you ever had to do. You seem to be thinking he is talking about you, he may just be out of the blue talking about someday getting married someday, I don't want to hurt your feelings I don't think at this time he is thinking about marrying you or anyone.
I believe he is just saying maybe one day he is going to be thinking about a wife but you see he doesn't ever say you and I. Don't let you yourself get hurt by him just casually saying my future wife one day. Marriage is a very hard thing and to walk into a marriage just because you want to marry. First you make sure you want this man for better or worst and love him so much that you'd give your life for him. Men change after marriage and sometimes the change is for the worst.
Let me put it to you this way, just forget for now about marrying him get on with your life and have a good time and leave marriage off until you really, really, love someone , you'll know when he come along. The answer is no he isn't at this time wanting to marry you.
2007-03-09 11:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 15:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 8 months together you should have had a frank discussion on it already. Move on.
2007-03-09 10:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible. My husband approached the subject the same way. We've been married for the last eight months.
2007-03-09 10:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. If you are that worried about it just ask him. IF you don't want to get married and he does then you should not be together because dating is trying to find somebody you want to be with forever.
2007-03-09 10:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by zambeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...Duh!! Do you think he is just saying that to make conversation? Get real! Men do not just toss the M-word around, they are usually scared of it.
2007-03-09 10:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him but i would say either he is hinting to you to see what you say about or he is very open to marriage and the possibility of it.
2007-03-09 10:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been dating for 8 months, don't you think you should be comfortable enough to ask him what he is thinking or referring to? good luck
2007-03-09 10:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he drops one of his mysterious hints, say straight out: "Are you proposing to me?"
2007-03-09 10:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋