Im 15 years old. My classmates dont like me for some reason. They like to harass me and my friend Danielle. Danielle and I were sitting listening to an ipod and this one girl kept harassing me. Danielle was like leave Jackie alone. We are really fed up with them. This one kid Jerimiah, proceeds to ask us if we were lesbians and made out. Danielle and I are not lesbians. We couldnt take there taunting anymore and went down to our disciplinarian. they sent sarah down to. We told our story and Sarah isnt allowed to talk to me or come near me. Sarah lied to get herself out of trouble. She proceeded to text Danielles boyfriend and told him how she lied her way our of trouble. Im really very upset and so is Danielle. What should we do about this whole situation?
2007-03-09 10:12:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I had left the classroom and my friend John said that people there said we deserved it. I dont get how. I havent been nasty to them, im quiet, i mind my own business. i really dont understand how i deserved it
2007-03-09 10:19:45 · update #1
This sounds like something that the more you show how angry, sad, and fed up that you are the more this girl enjoys doing these things to you. I would just let her know that it doesn't bother you or your friend, and don't say it to her that will just make her poke more fun at you, Say by showing it. When she makes fun of you just laugh too and say you know it all don't you? Or just simply don't say anything at all, just go on about you day as if she isn't even in your life, the response you give her is why she does this. By not responding to her anymore she will eventually get tired of it and move on. Just ask her if her life revolves around yours and then ask who is more pathetic? It seems to me that her life is so boring that she has to jazz it up by making fun of you and your friend, I know its embarrassing and annoying, but really it should be a compliment to know that whatever you are doing is important to her. So let her know instead of being hurt you are flattered. That will drive her crazy and trust me it will stop.
Good luck!
2007-03-09 10:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chelsearay85 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ben there since 12 up to high school. For some reason i wanst liked eithr and was the joke for everyone to tease. Go to the person in charge of the school OR better yet PARENTS! yes gotta love them . get yous and your friends involded cause for one they can put pressure on the school by making complaints. If they wont do nothing they can go higher. These kids are making it hard for you to learn and get your education.
Just ignore them. sooner or later after trying so hard to tick you two off(dont respond back in any way) they will get tired of it and start on someone else. I had a girl who would bully me in middle school. It hurt and they could tell. So i strated ignorng htem. Eventually they stopped cause they couldnt ge anythig out of me.
2007-03-09 11:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are probably jealous of you or your friendship with that girl. it is so hard to find true friends!
i was like you at your age, I only had one best friend at school and we never used to get involved with the rest of the class, I don't know, we just did not connect very well with those people, so of course we were not liked at all.
But we chose to ignore it, whatever other thought of us was there problems. Instead of eating at the canteen, we wo9uld eat in my uncle's garden which was on the other side of the school fence, every free time we had we were out of the school.
The difficult time was when she was sick and could not make it to school, then i was a bit lonely, i dreaded those days.
Somedays you have to learn to shut up and put up or just pretend to be someone else for a day lol
And yes sometimes it hurts, but also sometimes when we had enough we would play b***es for a day...not nice I know but boy it felt good!
At the end of the day you know what is true about yourself and your friend and your boyfriends should know that too...
You are not married to those people, they are not your family....you only have to put up with them for a certain time...find a way to make the best of it.
Ignorance & silence annoy people...
2007-03-09 10:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 too, and do you know what i do when i encounter someone like that? I just smile and laugh because i'm imagining how they'll all be truck drivers or working at McDonald's for the rest of their lives. If you don't show them you are bothered by them they will stop. I know it sounds like something from a movie or the hallmark channel, but it really is true. They are lower than you. YOU should be treated THEM like dirt.
2007-03-09 14:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by hellopanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting herrassed and the school won't solve the problem. Remember it is a crime to do that to people so go to the police and the court and have a no contact order place on the people that are herrassing you. Make themlearn that what they are doing is a crime.
2007-03-09 20:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kids are mean, they'll do whatever they can to hurt others, especially if it makes them look better. Just try and ignore them because there is really nothing that you can do.. The other girl will continue to lie and never get in trouble.. so just try not to let it bother you..
2007-03-09 11:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by amanda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should let things blow over and then ask Sarah why does she get a high off of making people mad or making people feel lower then they are. And then if she trys to make a joke out of it then you know she has a low selfesteem and she only picks on people to make herself look better and more cool.(pick me for best answer...lol)
2007-03-09 10:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ms.Pleasure 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell danielle's boyfriend to save that text message and so it to the principle.
That should get her into more trouble or tell your parent to contact the school. Good luck
2007-03-09 10:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Forget about them. If people are that mean and cruel to you and your friend you just forget about them. They pick on you because they feel that degrading other people is something they have to do. I am 15 and I got pregnant and people started calling me a slut and a whore but I didn't listen to them. They are just trying to make you feel bad about yourself.
2007-03-09 10:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kally 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ignore them...there were 2 girls at my school who thought they were too good for everyone else....they looked at us weird and never got anywhere near us, eventually we avoided them more than they avoided us....they finally came over said "whats up?"...we told them what they had been doing and how we felt about it....we all ended up being good friends..................and BTW tell your mom or a good lady friend they may have some advice for you
2007-03-09 11:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by moochers13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋