2007-03-09 10:10:49 · 11 answers · asked by Basic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
our relationship was so good through high school. She cheated on me once and we got back together. Then we lived with each other and had our daughter. I know being the man and all I have to support both my fiancee and daughter but at the time, I was paying all the bills and had no help. She never wanted to get a job or help around the house. I would come home to a dirty house and I was just stressed out. So of course I would take it out on her and just start arguments (never anything violent, I would never do that). All the little things that she wanted to see from me, I wasnt doing and she would feel unapprieciated. I felt the same way because I was working and making sure and these thing got paid off. Then a girl at work was intrested in me and decides to kiss me, I pushed her off and did not go along with it. I told her about it and she was upset and just thought it was all me. We spent new years together and it was so special. Then after that she broke up. Now she has a new man.
2007-03-09 10:45:57 · update #1
Lemme guess, you cheated on her, right? Leave her alone.
2007-03-09 10:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 should sit down and go through all the good memories you had together during those 6 years. And then choose all the good characteristics you like about each other and list these on paper. Talk about these things you like(d) about each other and try not to bring up the reasons why you are not together anymore. You can't go back in time to make changes, so why not change now for the better, whether this is getting back as husband/wife or just friends, the important thing is to have a positive relationship with your EX for your child's sake.
2007-03-09 18:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by AP34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he your EX fiance (I'm assuming he, because she's are fiancee). That would be a big part of the equation here. What happened that he is now your ex? Is there anything you can do to fix it? Would counseling help? Or is the relationship irrevocably damaged? More details would help in answering your question. Good luck!
2007-03-09 18:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up in the first place? just ask if you can start dating again. see where that leads. try hard to make things work out. follow through with the things you say your going to do. be family oriented. it's hard to say because who broke up with who and why. but you got the jist.
2007-03-09 18:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for your daughter, if things are meant to work out with your ex, it will in time.
2007-03-09 18:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she would have to be willing also. but whatever the problem just show her u have changed. but if she isn't willing to there is nothing u can do about it. just talk to her, find out if she wants to reconcile, and from there it will go one way or the other.
2007-03-09 18:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you have a child outside of marriage??? Not really fair for the kid, hon.
2007-03-09 18:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did that made her break up with u.
2007-03-09 18:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why she threw you out.
2007-03-09 18:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by CYP450 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance her my man, Romance her!
2007-03-09 18:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋