There are 4 of us (3 girls and a guy) which are always together in school. We were walking to the bus stop after school and one of them is like "so are we still going skiing Sunday?", I didn't say anything. (A day or two ago I overheard that same person talk about going skiing) The other girl is like "ya for sure" and still I didn't say anything. Then I start to cross the road the other girl is like " Sam, you're coming, you know that right" (Sam=me). So this is the first time shes asking me (even though thats more of a command) but now I don't know whether they truly want me to come or she just asked because maybe by mistake she mentioned it infront of me....I've contemplated at other times whether these same friends have actually wanted me to come places with them, because they've gone to other places without me and it may just be because they're all girls so they want to hang out as girls, but I don't know. So now should I go?...I feel like I was just a last minute addition...
2007-03-09 10:02:44 · 7 answers · asked by thee_guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They might have just forgotten. I do the same thing sometimes. It's mostly in a joking manner, "Sarah your GOING to the movies" :-) but I think they genuinely want you to come and that they do want some time as girls too so they don't invite you EVERYWHERE!
2007-03-09 10:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion would be that u should go. even if u didn't say anything at first, they still expect u to come becuz ur their friends. if u don't feel right about being the only guy, ask someone they know to go with you
2007-03-09 18:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to ski, so I'd go.
Do you think you'd have fun if you went? If yes, then go. You're all friends, you'll have fun together, don't be so self-conscious.
2007-03-09 18:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they just sometimes want girl night out! But if they invited you I would go. They wouldn't invite you if they didn't want you to go. Or even ask them "are you sure you want me to go".
2007-03-09 18:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! If you want to go than go, if you don't than don't! Don't read so far into things. I think you have a image problem!
2007-03-09 18:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them no you're not going, they should of asked you sooner. Tell them you have other plans.
2007-03-09 18:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find some guy friends.
2007-03-09 18:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋