I love my fiance very much but he has so many damn problems
first off he has been losing a lot of money gambling the last 2 weeks so hes pretty depressed about that. I begged him for the last 5 days to PLEASE take me out on Friday night, to a movie, out to dinner something. The last time he left the house with me was over 2 months ago. He said ok and now he said hes staying home and wont take me any where.
I know I sound like such a baby but I got my hopes up so bad I was ready to go and then he told me no. I AM SO SICK OF HIM I WANT TO LEAVE HIM SO BAD HE ALWAYS DISAPPOINTS ME. what should I do
2007-03-09 10:00:36 · 13 answers · asked by kerra c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The door swings "in", and "out". Why are you still there? He won't change....better that you know it before you get married.
2007-03-09 10:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gambling is a very serious addiction. Don't be fooled for a minute believing that YOU, personally would ever be more important than the habit. Let him go. What is a few days or weeks of pain vs a lifetime of continuous disappointment??
2007-03-09 18:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your having these kinds of troubles now, marriage will not change him for the better. this guy is not ready for marriage, not mature enough. he also has different priorities than u do. he doesn't seem to care what u think, and u really need to think about marrying him and getting into this mess especially with his gambling problem.
2007-03-09 18:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) I am so sick of this
2) he ALWAYS disappoints me
And you think this guy is marriage material for what reason?
His inability to be with you in public?
His inability to stop wasting money (his, or yours?) on gambling?
You have very low standards in what a man should be.
Kick the bum out and find a real man- not a schmuck!
2007-03-09 18:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by CYP450 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your own question. You said you are sick of him and you want to leave him so bad. Leave him!!! If you marry this man it will just get worse as time goes by.
2007-03-09 18:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab some money b4 he loses it all and go to the movies by yourself and start doing other things by yourself, if he doesn't even notice you doing stuff on your own, and doesn't change to include you more u don't need him, breaking up is hard but staying with someone like that will only get worse.
2007-03-09 18:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Shaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Do you want a lifetime of this once you are married?
Warning signs are there girl! If you arent happy now things will only get worse.
2007-03-09 18:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Paradox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me, that he is all about himself not thinking of what would make you happy. If he is just your boyfriend, I say it is time to let him go. If he can't make you happy while you are dating what do you think it would be like later after a marriage and children. You can do better.
2007-03-09 18:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by Holly S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say goodbye right now!! Life is too short. He will never change, not even for someone he loves.
2007-03-09 18:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by AP34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get both of you help now!
Right now, and if he says no then it's the front door for him.
2007-03-09 18:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋