so he will still use condoms, otherwise he will nag about not wanting to wear them if he knew I had the pill. I got tricked into getting pregnant by him, long story. I dont want him to know, he is a insatiable and Im fine doing once a month!
2007-03-09 09:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by Bitsy B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
its your choice
2007-03-09 09:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say you are in a predicament!! OK this is what I see....I am assuming you have been with him for quite a while...if he really cares about you and loves you, he should be ok with you taking the pill and understanding your concern for a condom! I also agree that he needs to grow up a little, but what man doesn't!! LOL It is your body and your right to be on the pill wether or not he knows it. But I gaurentee that it wont be long before he finds out you are on the pill, I think it would be hard to hide from him over a long period of time. My thought is, take the pill!! Protect yourself and him!! If he finds out you are on the pill and he freaks explain your reasoning behind it, if he can't handle it, then he needs recheck himself...bc its not him that has to walk around for 9 months with that baby!! Good luck, and get on the pill if it is what you want girl!!!!
Lizzie RN
2007-03-09 17:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by lizzieRN13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dishonesty isn't a good basis for a relationship. If you can't agree things and trust each other you should end the relationship and move on.
Why do you want him to wear condoms?
2007-03-09 17:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're fine...it's your body, it's your life. He should still wear condoms for safe sex practices, and the pill alone does not protect against any sexually transmitted disease.
2007-03-09 17:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well sounds to me like your BF needs ot grow up . good luck on that all men hate wearing condoms . I wouldn't tell him but just by the sounds of what you wrote i don't think he is hte one for you if you know what i mean .
2007-03-09 17:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ hello_kitty_xoxo ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely take them if you're not ready to be a mom and you are sexually active. I think you also need to take a good look at your relationship. If you don't trust each other WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM?
2007-03-09 17:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Michael L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to decieve him why would you stay with him...that doesn't sound like the makings of a good realtionship
2007-03-09 17:34:26 · answer #7 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldnt have to tell him. It is your body and your choice to have a baby. He sounds not good enough for you and i would find someone who respects you enough not to put you in this situation. Good luck x
2007-03-09 18:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by alexa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very honestly, it just sounds like he needs to grow up, and you need to move on.
2007-03-09 17:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by amanda r 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Deception is not a good basis for a relationship.
2007-03-09 17:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No i dont think he needs to know..Just take them secretly
2007-03-09 17:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by ♥♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋