Tell me what to do with my life. What shall I do next?

Question

Please can I have some serious suggestions as well as the obvious funny ones! Thanks.

I've got a degree, job, partner, pets, house & mortgage.

Answer 1

no one can tell you what to do with your life. your life, your decisions

Answer 2

You can do whatever you want to do.

What you must do now is work out what you want to do with your life. Maybe just accept that you'll just live life, go to work, come home go to sleep, get up and do it all again day in day out. But you can do different stuff everyday and learn, and experience and appreciate every thing and everyone in your life. And if you get bored, sell the house and go travelling somewhere warm.

So many people always think they have to do something next without actually realising they're ALWAYS doing something and sometimes life is that something. Human beings always need a project though - something away from work that they are in control of totally.

Learn a language, learn to play the guitar, write a book, paint pictures, have children, laugh, smile because the sun is shining, hold hands, be silly......there's so much to do and so little time to do it in. Don't waste time asking others what only you know the answer to. You'll find the answer inside yourself.

Whatever you do. Enjoy it.

Answer 3

You have a degree, job, partner(wife or life partner), home pets and a mortgage. I say unless you are still in your teens, you have accomplished what it takes others a lifetime to accomplish. Improve your degree,job,your home and "pay off the mortgage".

Answer 4

You seem to have the 'deal' so I suggest you go on living and try to make the best of it. If however you are not satisfied with what you have, post a question in that category. Next would be a great holiday.

Answer 5

It is easy to tell someone else what to do. But a little more back ground information on your situation would help answer.

You need to take a good look at yourself. What is it that your doing that makes you want to so something different. Do you want to make a major change or a slight change.

If you have not graduated high school go get your GED and look into going to a trade school or college.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 6

Seems you have got the most everybody aims to get. The question to ask yoursefl is: are you happy & contented with your lot? If not, why not. I asked the question shows that you are a bit restless, with enough energy to spare looking for challenges to tackle your intelligence. Be honest with yourself to find out what these goals are & try your best to achieve them.

Answer 7

Carry on just as you are and dream about when the kids leave home how much could you stash away for a massive blow out holiday 4 u n your loved one no kids or worries but while away the hours talking about what you want out of life now you have more freedom from RESPONSIBILITY its a big breath of fresh air just to worry about you 2.....

Answer 8

Cherish it with ur partner.. live life to its fullest! Think of the many ppl around the world thats not as fortunate as you should u ever have second thoughts. Cheers!

Answer 9

Are you familiar with the cliche: "If someone told you to jump off a cliff--would you do it"? My advice is to do whatever it takes to survive .Eat, drink, and be merry! Life is too short and to worry---not to mention that it is a useless emotion because it prevents you from enjoying life and asking questions like this one. Honestly, I'm not trying to be a smart ***.

Answer 10

Try going into a business doing something you like. I know you have a job, but maybe something on the internet would provide you with another interest.

Answer 11

Best thing you can do is get your hiking boots on and go for a long, long walk by yourself. You will think cycles of thought around and around and when you're done, all your questions should most likely be resolved.